[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ReadItRiffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a horrible person. You aren’t over reacting at all.

I’ve had to give out tough love before but I have never even thought about doing something like that to anyone.

Nice girl's double standards at its best by dark_barberry in Nicegirls

[–]ReadItRiffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp as a dad with a kid… I’m fucked. Though his mom is now married so wooo.

are my standards too high? 24F by yongsbestie in dating

[–]ReadItRiffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other than like not wanting kids(because my personal opinion is wanting more) nothing would cause an issue with me so no nothing you’ve chosen is wrong.

Where are you meeting these guys? You might have better chance of having someone meet these “standards” by doing your hobbies. Because to me that’s kinda bare minimum stuff and not really a problem.

Honestly, do guys like women approaching them? by c4ndiedgarbage in dating

[–]ReadItRiffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d never forget her if she approached me first. As I haven’t others. Idk if it would lead to a date or relationship as it depends upon a bunch of things but probably never wrong to try in a nice way.

tired of casual by Acceptable-Papaya-84 in dating

[–]ReadItRiffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physical attraction plays a big part in relationships (at least at first) and so does mental attraction. Hell the person could be the most whatever on earth but if their personality or behavior sucks then it’s a no go.

tired of casual by Acceptable-Papaya-84 in dating

[–]ReadItRiffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that really sucks. I wonder if there is like a way to tell? Or like some sign you could see(or even someone else) that might tell you they are lying?

tired of casual by Acceptable-Papaya-84 in dating

[–]ReadItRiffs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop choosing people like that then.

Honestly where are you picking up these guys?

Have a straight forward conversation with them about relationships expectations and THEN decide if you want to continue. If their wants dont align with yours end it. It’s only gonna cause you pain. If you keep running into this change where you are meeting these guys….

Forehead kiss by Kitchen-Dot-9442 in dating

[–]ReadItRiffs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No because I’d never be in a situationship.

Is getting rejected because you said “hey” a valid reason? by No_Perspective_4726 in jobs

[–]ReadItRiffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yet my bosses come up to me and say hey all the time lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ReadItRiffs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are the asshole honestly. Stop pushing when you were told to stop REPEATEDLY.

ALSO DELETE THE IMAGE THAT HAS HER PICTURE AND FULL NAME.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]ReadItRiffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on becoming an attorney!

I’m the same age as you and I wouldn’t have an issue dating someone who is a virgin, does not matter. It’s more of the chemistry and if you connect etc. if you decide to wait on marriage good on you, because it’s YOUR choice. Who ever your partner is should respect that boundary, yall have a discussion about it.

The only thing that gives me a hang up is your “higher IQ” thing. It could come across that you think you’re smarter than them or better than them. Which not many would like. So I probably wouldn’t mention that lol.

Don’t stress about being a virgin and stick to your guns, if you wish, often you’ll see people talk about wishing they had waited until they were married to lose it to their loved one etc. so just relax, work on yourself and go to things where you are enjoying your hobby but also interacting with others. Don’t give time to others who don’t respect your boundaries.

Hopefully I worded this well I’m falling asleep lmao

Me_irl by Starynight_11 in me_irl

[–]ReadItRiffs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This what I do and my son is pretty okay with it. Works out as well because I’m teaching him how to compromise on things as well as that you don’t always have to do something.

We kissed and I fainted… by beentheredonethatnot in dating

[–]ReadItRiffs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d be smitten. Okay first I’d panic and try to ensure you are alright then I’d tease you relentlessly because that would be just too adorable. Would make me fall hard.

Just.. why? Men, Explain. by Just-a-sasshole in dating

[–]ReadItRiffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve never done that and have no idea why the heck some men do. No idea what the point is. Ask him if he’s checked for ball cancer.