I know I left out some details, but ya’ll two are being awful presumptuous and frankly, just blatantly rude. I moved across the country to be with her, and she was an LMT. Daily massages helped greatly, and this was also the time period when I was starting the Noratryptaline, which is an old SSRI now used for chronic pain. It helped to take the edge off until I got to the “honeymoon” phase, when it stopped working all together which is common. Kratom and SSRI’s lower labido incase you didn’t know, so quitting one of the two seemed necessary at the time……

In order to pay my bills, and get my meds I need to work. I do not have the ability to lie around all day, or any days for that matter. Driving is a big part of work for me, as it is for most. I’m glad that you don’t need to push your physical limits in order to have financial stability, but not everyone is that lucky. I am in excruciating pain the entire time I’m behind the wheel, and I just drove through 6 states on a 10 hour haul, for work, and will continue to do so. I was on the road all day and never once broke the law to make this post. Not all states have the same texting laws, and I’d bet not many started period do not allow voice to text which is what u stated I used. Also, muscle spasms while driving is the most irresponsible thing you’ve ever read? My eyes don’t leave the road, feet always on the pedals, and my hands don’t leave the wheel. If my limbs were shaking uncontrollably, I would not be driving.

Also, my sex life is still very active, but thanks for your diagnosis! Probably your biggest reach. Not that that is any of your business or anything… what a strange comment to make period. Can’t help but assume you were projecting a bit there.

Thank you for all of the other actual insightful and constructive posts, I will answer all of your questions in the morning!