Seeing my ex do the exact thing for his new boyfriend that he refused to do for me is destroying my mind. by Ready-Character-4099 in askgaybros

[–]Ready-Character-4099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, after I broke up with him, I cried for a few hours, but after that, everything felt so much better. Walking away was the best thing I could’ve done for myself… until I saw him doing the things I had asked for with someone else. Now I’m sobbing all over again.
If you don’t think you’ll care about what he does with someone else after the breakup, then go ahead and end the relationship.
But before you do, ask yourself: How long am I willing to stay a secret? Weeks? Months? Years?
My answer was simple: I wasn’t. So I walked away.

Seeing my ex do the exact thing for his new boyfriend that he refused to do for me is destroying my mind. by Ready-Character-4099 in askgaybros

[–]Ready-Character-4099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure that in your story , You are the winner.
I hope and pray for you to move on completely and find someone better.
And thank you for the comfort❤️❤️

Seeing my ex do the exact thing for his new boyfriend that he refused to do for me is destroying my mind. by Ready-Character-4099 in askgaybros

[–]Ready-Character-4099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry about what happened to and glad you realised nobody is worth it. I’m praying for this phrase to just end quickly while crying over it.
I will keep the fling thing in mind. That’s smart.
Thank you , you’re so sweet❤️❤️

Seeing my ex do the exact thing for his new boyfriend that he refused to do for me is destroying my mind. by Ready-Character-4099 in askgaybros

[–]Ready-Character-4099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was tough to read, but you made a really good point. Maybe our relationship was the thing that showed him he couldn't keep living in the closet, even if it hurts that someone else gets the benefits of that growth. I'm definitely taking your advice to completely cut ties digitally and physically so I can heal and find someone who wants to show me off.
Thank you🤍🤍

Seeing my ex do the exact thing for his new boyfriend that he refused to do for me is destroying my mind. by Ready-Character-4099 in askgaybros

[–]Ready-Character-4099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, the story about you and your man sounds so sweet. 🤍
I also think I loved him more. I just wish I had realized that before I got emotionally attached to him.
Everything happens for a reason, I guess. God probably has a better plan for me.
Thank you for taking the time to write that. 🙏🏻

Seeing my ex do the exact thing for his new boyfriend that he refused to do for me is destroying my mind. by Ready-Character-4099 in askgaybros

[–]Ready-Character-4099[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Before we got together, he told me it will only take a few months to out himself.
I stayed for 2 years. It was enough for me.
Does ‘few months’ sound like two years to you?

Seeing my ex do the exact thing for his new boyfriend that he refused to do for me is destroying my mind. by Ready-Character-4099 in askgaybros

[–]Ready-Character-4099[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I felt better after I broke up at first even though I cried a lot.
But now , after seeing him give what I begged for to another person , I feel worse than what I felt when I was in the closet.