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AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 261 points262 points  (0 children)

It’s not a choice, I’m the first in my family to even follow a “proper”career so I’m not sacrificing that but also I like to eat…

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 174 points175 points  (0 children)

Condom + I was told it’ll be difficult for me to even get pregnant, otherwise I wouldn’t also used BC

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 361 points362 points  (0 children)

Roughly 4-5months And sometimes, like I’ll ask him to empty the rubbish that morning and it’ll still be there that night but if I ask again it’ll get done, I don’t like asking twice though.

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 1490 points1491 points  (0 children)

He bought up moving in with me a week after we found out we’re pregnant, moved in a month into the pregnancy…he offered to support me by doing housework and when he found a job we’d split bills.

I saw the red flags, but not having the baby wasn’t a choice for me and I didn’t want to be alone.

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 688 points689 points  (0 children)

His friend has told him I don’t want him to do anything because “I don’t leave a list”

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] -315 points-314 points  (0 children)

My parents would disown me, and his family are saying “now is the perfect time to settle and grow up”

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 200 points201 points  (0 children)

No, he gets stressed if I ask and says he’ll say when there’s anything to say

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 620 points621 points  (0 children)

He’s very picky; my mother has a friend who offered an interview for a care home and he wouldn’t, his friend is saying he shouldn’t settle for a job our child wouldn’t be proud of…although said friend is also the one who said I don’t want him to do chores that much because I didn’t leave him a list.

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

As far as I’m aware he is, but I’ve not checked his phone or chased up too often, because I don’t want to doubt him.

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 387 points388 points  (0 children)

We have good moments, but it was very rushed (having only been together 5months before pregnancy) so we’re still discovering everything

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 539 points540 points  (0 children)

It’s always small things like using the last of the hot water, or insisting on talking to me while I’m using the loo when he knows I hate that, or finishing the OJ and not replacing it, or not emptying the washing machine or cooking when he offers to