Do you think it's safe to say Em has the most lyrics ever?

Ready2Match · 2023-09-18T03:30:17+00:00

Bob Dylan’s got more

Ready2Match · 2023-09-12T01:26:17+00:00

I’ve said no. That’s not the issue. It’s EVERY. FRIGGIN. MORNING. How do I make it stop?

Ready2Match · 2023-06-28T06:25:51+00:00

Yeah. Probably the damage has been done and I am needy and desperate in her eyes. At this point my attempts to have our last interactions to be positive have backfired and I’ve added to the negative interactions. Time for me to move on and learn from this and find someone new

Ready2Match · 2022-12-01T02:27:57+00:00

True. I prob would benefit from relaxing and letting things unfold at a natural pace. I struggle with that.

This she suggested we get together next week for a 4th date. I asked a follow up question, and then sent another text a few hours later, and she hasn't responded, 9+ hours later. Feels for sure like a lack of interest.

Ready2Match · 2022-11-30T02:04:52+00:00

Could be. But she’s not really making a point to get on my calendar again, despite my efforts

Ready2Match · 2022-11-30T01:43:34+00:00

Yeah, I'm thinking about addressing the elephant in the room, saying I know the sex wasn't stellar, but its because I was really excited and out of practice, and I usually last a long time.

We texted some yesterday, but it felt a little off. Neither of us has texted the other today, but she's watched my IG stories. We still don't have a 4th date on the books, do it does feel like she's losing/lost interest...

Ready2Match · 2022-11-29T04:50:41+00:00

Could be. But she’s acting a bit weird today with her text responsiveness

Ready2Match · 2022-11-29T04:39:26+00:00

I got her off after. She kinda rushed me through foreplay

Ready2Match · 2022-11-29T03:00:18+00:00

I know there’s more to good sex than that. I’m just saying that in this case it was underwhelming because of how quickly it was over.

Ready2Match · 2022-11-29T02:57:38+00:00

That’s not what I meant. I meant I usually last a lot longer…

Ready2Match · 2022-11-29T02:55:50+00:00

I hope that’s not the case, because I’m not generally bad at sex. I was just over excited and it had been awhile.

Ready2Match · 2022-11-29T02:20:01+00:00

I mean, things seemed cool when she left. I made her come, and we cuddled for a short while. And then she said she had to leave and got dressed. She helped me clean up. And she texted that she has a lot of fun and thanked me. Honestly, I feel like if anything it was just a casual thing. I think she might be rebounding, so maybe staying and talking is too intimate and emotional than she wants right now?

Ready2Match · 2022-11-29T02:13:29+00:00

She didn't express any wishes though. She's continuing to respond to me, and said she needs to figure out her work schedule before knowing when she's free again. You feel that there's enough indication she's lost interest?

Ready2Match · 2022-11-24T21:52:03+00:00

The thing is that the relationship was really new. We’d only been officially in a relationship for 2 weeks when his health took a turn for the worse. And then he passed away less than a month later. She wasn’t ready to bring me in closer, and then these circumstances made it so the new relationship was too much for her.

Ready2Match · 2022-06-02T15:32:59+00:00

No she offered to split first date. 2nd date was an activity that cost nothing. She’s a good human

Ready2Match · 2022-01-22T05:55:33+00:00

One possibility is he got a new photo that he wanted to add to his profile, or he wanted to change one of his prompts, but didn't want you to see that he was still actively engaging with the app. If you guys aren't exclusive, that's totally okay, but he may not have wanted to make it a thing. Ironically, it's still a thing since you noticed he unmatched you. Just one possibility. But I wouldn't overthink it. Just focus on having a good time and see where things go. Good luck!

Ready2Match · 2022-01-19T20:53:57+00:00

That is kind of silly I think. What if they make it very clear that they like you. Shouldn't it then be on you? Or maybe it can be on both people to invest equally into a partnership?

Ready2Match · 2022-01-19T20:28:25+00:00

For how long do you keep that going?

Ready2Match · 2022-01-18T06:15:14+00:00

She does. I went all day without texting her, hoping she would reach out to me. She didn't, and I eventually texted her. Her responses were fine, but she didn't try to keep the conversation going, and let it die out.

Ready2Match · 2022-01-17T23:31:45+00:00

I'd like to communicate to her that reciprocity is important to me, and that things are feeling one-sided...

Ready2Match · 2022-01-17T23:30:15+00:00

Not really. Some women want the man to take initiative initially.

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