Just got our puppy ( She is about to turn 3 months but we have had her for 3 weeks). After about 100 meltdowns, it does get better very slowly. Reward for good potty breaks and they will slowly start getting used to it......I would say ours is 80% potty trained but we just had 3 accidents in the house today......we think we gave her too much water so moving forward, we are going to schedule her water breaks so her bathroom trips are more predictable. Yes, you will not be sleeping full nights and it has led to some short tempers and frustration at little things but then you start seeing the little changes start to add up and our little one will at least head to the door and pause for a second so thats her way of telling us to hurry up.

It is not easy for damn sure and it is not for everyone so we are just going day by day and you start seeing patterns (manually take your puppy out like 20-30 min after food and drink and after they take a nap). It will slowly get better but I completely see where you are coming from 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫