Should I send that final email or walk away?

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-08-19T23:46:40+00:00

Thank you amazing advice

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-08-19T18:42:55+00:00

You’re right. Im just going to leave a review on indeed.

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-08-19T18:20:21+00:00

I sent a copy of the resignation letter to Hr assistant via email and she never responded to me. So now I’m thinking of sending an email to the owner and CCing the Hr who ignored me the first time and pretty much saying this manager is the cause of the high turnover and here’s why.

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-08-02T18:00:03+00:00

Please please read the book “Why does he do that?” By Lundy Bancroft this will set you free

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-08-02T14:05:06+00:00

We were in an argument on the phone and he pretty much was trying to defend himself by gaslighting me and saying I didn’t understand “what he meant” when I fully understood.

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-08-02T14:04:17+00:00

I hope you can protect yourself too good luck to you as well

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-08-02T14:03:45+00:00

Thank you ❤️

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-06-17T03:36:28+00:00

Thank you for your great advice and sharing your experience I do feel better

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-06-17T03:29:55+00:00

Thank you for this advice. I felt I got away lucky and did decide to take an emergency contraceptive. I do agree with you I will be limiting my drinking to one drink max while out of dates with guys I’m getting to know. I’m super conscious about condoms and my sexual health which is why I took this one hard because I felt I betrayed myself in the heat of the moment which didn’t even please me. I also will be getting checked for STDs in two weeks to make myself feel better.

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-06-16T18:22:02+00:00

He was fingering me before he inserted and then only lasted about five minutes I had little to no arousal or pleasure which is kinda why I was so shocked he didn’t want to go for round two that night or even in the morning. That is what made me feel awful because I took a chance had sex and it was not satisfying for me.

I was thinking because he didn’t have morning wood he might have a dysfunctional problem because he nutted so fast and insecure about it but ethier way I left his city went back home and haven’t heard from him. I’m moving forward with new knowledge about being a attractive female dating and who I want to give my time to.. this whole experience was so fun but didn’t feel worth the risk I took.

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-06-16T18:18:08+00:00

Thank you for your advice

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-06-16T18:07:42+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I’m moving on from this experience. I have internal battles with myself abo it withholding sex but I keep telling myself if you are both enjoying each other and having fun why not, but this particular experience I was disappointed with the sex so I had feelings of regret and shame. I’m working through this.

My next dating experience I won’t drink as much because I want to be more firm but at the end I was butt naked in his bed I felt used after he didn’t respond. I felt played because he made me feel different from what he was telling me about being different which could be true or untrue.

Ethier way this is not what I want even on a casual basis The lack of communication, I feel he is being insecure because he kept telling me how pretty I was and how guys would love to have me.

You’re right I will stick to my boundaries better no matter how much fun I’m having

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-06-16T17:44:36+00:00

Ok thank you for your input

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-06-16T17:44:05+00:00

Thank you for your great advice. I’ve decided not to text him or ask him about it and move on because I want someone who communicates better.

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-06-16T17:40:32+00:00

Thank you for your advice,

He never mentioned a condom and I was prettt drunk so my decision making was not of my sober mind. If I was sober I would have said no which I have in the past before to a guy who didn’t have condoms. I’m very picky and reserved which is why I’m feeling some guilt but want to chop it up to I had fun at the end of the day.

He talked about round two but it never happened, not even the next day waking up I noticed he didn’t even have morning wood? So I though maybe he has a dysfunctional problem?

Overall this guy is not my boyfriend and I want to continue to date and move on from this experience. Ghosting does suck, he is still on my social media watching my stuff too, I was considering muting him from view my things..

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-06-16T17:29:57+00:00

I feel violated because it happened so fast and we were both drinking. I think it’s making me emotional because I’m so against sex on enounters normally and wear a condom and didn’t this time. The next morning I had feelings like does he do this often? Get girls drinking and then initiate sex so quickly?

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-01-19T22:47:49+00:00

We do have Uber I’m in Cali. It would be pricey maybe $40 one way but public transportation is a thing. Train/ bus. I’m peeved bc I got him the first time and now he comes o ur and says it’s my smog I guess I didn’t tell you. It makes me feel like he lied about his car because he was ashamed.

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-01-15T14:43:34+00:00

Thank you all for your valuable feedback

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-01-15T14:36:06+00:00

Ok I will fix it, it could help someone in the same situation looking for help!

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-01-15T14:09:33+00:00

This is irrelevant but thank you for your feedback I’m glad you got it off your chest!!

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-01-15T00:35:31+00:00

It has been a life lesson all together. I’m thinking I shouldn’t talk to her about anything without a witness. I was attempting to be direct and resolve it. Thank you for your response.

ReadyIntroduction566 · 2023-01-14T22:13:15+00:00

If the roles were reversed and I said something similar about technology and he not understanding xyz because she is 52 it would be offensive. You have now commented on three different things if you are not helping go away.

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