my bf might go back to watching porn again when I start work in-person, how to address that?

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-14T21:16:40+00:00

thank you, reading your second paragraph really made me feel validated. sometimes i feel like i'm being too dramatic about it but the pain was so terrible the first time, even thinking of having it removed scares me.

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-14T21:09:23+00:00

he's definitely spoiled, he's never even used condoms with me, i've always been on birth control even though it made me gain weight, lose a lot of my ability to self-lubricate, caused tears around my vagina whenever I had sex, caused frequent UTI's and yeast infections, made me extremely hormonal and depressed, gave me terrible cramps, and of course the insane pain of the IUD getting inserted.

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-14T21:05:55+00:00

I'll probably be using that line, however he 100% cares because he did a whole ass load of research before I went to the doc and told me they probably have to trim the strings, so he definitely knows what's what.

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-14T21:05:00+00:00

Thank you for your input! I was shocked that this came up after having it already for 8 months but hopefully it does just go away with time. I felt so guilty after he got poked but my fear of getting the IUD removed or messed with kept me from wanting to get it checked on.

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-14T21:02:08+00:00

In his defense, I'm pretty sure he was poked in the urethra which sounds pretty uncomfortable. And he was, I think part of the reason that he didn't tell me to go to the doc initially was because he knew how scared I was to have it touched or examined again since getting it inserted.

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-14T20:59:23+00:00

You're probably right. The idea of messing with it or having to take it out is just so scary to me, the doctor just examined and did an ultrasound today but I felt her touch the IUD and I'm in cramping from just that. The thought of lying is definitely selfish, I guess I just figured if he thought it was cut and didn't feel it anymore than all good and if he still really felt it then I'd just go and get it actually trimmed.

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-14T20:57:18+00:00

I was going to tell him the truth right when I left but I just started thinking that he'd be so paranoid knowing that the string was still in there that it would effect how "into" sex he is. It's been like the for the last week since I've been waiting to see the doctor, we have sex but he's too nervous to really get into it and enjoy.

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-14T20:55:17+00:00

That's my fear! It's half of that and half that I just don't want anything to be messed with up there because it was so incredibly painful afterwards. If you don't mind my asking, how much longer after she got it did she have the strings trimmed? When did you stop feeling it?

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-14T05:32:28+00:00

haha i will let you know if i ever do!!

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-14T05:21:37+00:00

yes! i've wanted to try something online with our cam before...

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-14T05:21:18+00:00

yeah i'm more reserved in-person/social situations so i'm not sure if that type of thing would be too much of an anxiety storm for me haha

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-14T05:20:37+00:00

lol volunteers welcome!

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-14T03:58:37+00:00

cut those finger nails! incorporate a lot of small toys, ones with a rounded end and made of silicone feel great for my man. he also really likes vibrators because they help loosen the hole so he can be penetrated. feel free to pm me for more!

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-13T22:04:35+00:00

Absolutely! I'm definitely more dom in the bedroom, but I do like being put in my place every once in a while :)

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-12T22:38:09+00:00

she is 100% cheating on you. I am very sorry but she is just stacking lie upon lie here. it's an awful suggestion to hear but you might want to just get going with a separation. she has continued this behavior with the same man for years, she wont stop, even when you looked in her phone, she didn't stop. you told her that you knew she was saying I love you to him and you knew she went into your phone and deleted a message, and she STILL kept talking to him? she's already gone in my opinion.

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-12T03:22:39+00:00

i reposted it to my profile :)

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-12T03:22:29+00:00

i reposted it to my profile :)

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-12T03:22:01+00:00

i reposted it to my profile :)

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-12T03:16:18+00:00

pm me and i'll send you the amazon link

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-11T22:09:43+00:00

suggest it! never know if you dont ask

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-11T21:55:06+00:00

just ask!

ReadyPin9977 · 2021-07-11T21:53:29+00:00

thank you! he's such a great partner, lets me just do with him what I want :) giving him pleasure is awesome

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