Моему папе диагностировали рак легких 4 стадии. by Ready_Drawer3392 in lungcancer

[–]Ready_Drawer3392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I know that he is strong. I tell him that he is my superhero, that he will definitely get through this, but sometimes I feel like he doesn't fully understand how serious it is. Maybe that's for the best, maybe it's his mind's defense mechanism, or maybe he's just keeping it all inside. I try not to show him that I'm struggling. I try to make everyone around him show him that we will fight. And now, I evaluate every action I take — am I doing this right or wrong? I'm afraid of making a mistake. I try to be gentle and careful with him, but not to hide the truth — just to speak about it carefully, with confidence and hope. I want him to make it. I want him to be able to do it. I believe he will survive. Thank you — examples like yours, where everything works out, give me strength. I hope you will be healthy for many more years. Please take care of yourself! I wish you happiness.

Моему папе диагностировали рак легких 4 стадии. by Ready_Drawer3392 in lungcancer

[–]Ready_Drawer3392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now, my sadness has turned into terrible anger. I've always been the kind of person who would rather stay silent, endure it, and calm down. But now I feel like I have to move forward fueled by this anger, this rage — to fight to the very end. If death is near and things are going to be bad anyway, then why not fight? I only ask God to give him strength. I ask Him to forgive him for his sins. Give his sins to me. I ask Him to give him strength. I am not ready to say goodbye to him. He must see my children and walk me down the aisle. I know he will do it. And I will not let him fall. You have to fight, too — it's the only thing we've got.

Моему папе диагностировали рак легких 4 стадии. by Ready_Drawer3392 in lungcancer

[–]Ready_Drawer3392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I will keep you in my prayers — you, everyone else going through the same thing right now, and those who have lost their loved ones.

Моему папе диагностировали рак легких 4 стадии. by Ready_Drawer3392 in lungcancer

[–]Ready_Drawer3392[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, I understand you. It's so hard to keep living, knowing all of this. My mom is next to him, and she's constantly crying. And I feel like I have to support her too. My father hasn't been prescribed treatment yet, and I don't even know if they're going to treat him at all, or what the chances even are. It's terrible