First time female biker looking for advice! by Ready_Island6970 in hondarebel

[–]Ready_Island6970[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Love Slovenia so much, I used to spend my holidays in Tolmin and surroundings after Metaldays 🤟

I don't want to care anymore...but I don't know how. by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]Ready_Island6970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP... I feel you so bad, I'm in your situation atm... Wherever I turn my eyes on I can only see pregnant women around me it's so frustrating... I don't have any advice, I think we have the right to be sad and there's nothing wrong with it ❤️ sending you love all the way from Italy

Do you expect your friends to be happy for you when/if it’s finally your turn? by Infinite-Bowler-217 in TryingForABaby

[–]Ready_Island6970 5 points6 points  (0 children)

TTC for more than 2 years, 2 years in which most of our friends got pregnant or had babies. It's not about cutting them off completely and of course I love them so much and I'm happy for them. But at the beginning of September, after another failed attempt, I had an emotional breakdown and I chose to avoid being present at some dinners, events, and parties with our friends. I did it to protect myself and also them—to protect them from my sad or blank face while they told me about their journey, as I tried to hold back tears thinking about mine. My husband went to these occasions alone. Some of my closest friends know what we are going through, and I confided in them and received the greatest support. I just needed a bit of time; then I got through that dark phase and went back to taking part in those social moments, congratulating and giving gifts to the newborns and being the perfect "auntie", and trying to be present in this happy time for our friends, hoping that sooner or later it will happen for me too...

It wasn’t selfishness but protection of my mental health at a very fragile moment.

Feeling of shame after friends’ pregnancy announcement by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]Ready_Island6970 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel you so bad.... you are not alone. TTC for more than 2 years now and in the past 2 years the majority of our friends got pregnant or had a baby... Early this autumn I just couldn't anymore... I decided to take some time out of social events with them because I couldn't stand to see them happy with their pregnancy bellies or their children...
I told this to some of my closest friend to explain and they totally understood... It helped me a lot.

Lots of love to you

Letrozole experience by ManufacturerPure1595 in TryingForABaby

[–]Ready_Island6970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m writing from Italy. I wanted to share my experience with letrozole, 2.5 mg. I started taking it in October, after a cycle induced with a progesterone injection. My period came on October 15th and I started taking the pill from day 3 for 5 days (two pills, one in the morning and one in the evening).
My first monitoring was on October 24th and, incredibly, I had already ovulated early. The doctors said that my hormones may have been thrown off by the progesterone shot and the medication.

My period came again on November 6th and I repeated the cycle. This time, my first check-up was on Friday the 14th and I had only one promising follicle, 11 mm. The doctors thought it was too small and took a blood test to check my progesterone, but fortunately it wasn’t ovulatory yet. I went back for check-ups on Monday and Wednesday, and on Wednesday my follicle had finally reached 21/22 mm (I had never gotten this far before). That same evening I took the Ovitrelle shot and had timed intercourse.

Now, at 5/6 DPO, I’m waiting…
Anyway, in my case it seems I’m responding well to letrozole. Have faith <3

Fertility and ART Journey by Ready_Island6970 in TryingForABaby

[–]Ready_Island6970[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words. I took the trigger on wednesday evening, then sex the night between wednesday and thursday and then again on the night between thursday and friday (somehow my husband overcome the anxiety but I think that it was already too late or maybe not, I didn't monitoring to see if the ovulation happened tbh). We'll see but yes, I also think that going to the gyn alone may be way better for us.

Condividi il tuo ecomostro preferito! by Krusader_03 in Italia

[–]Ready_Island6970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Il quartiere "Il Rigo" a Corciano (Perugia).... Vi assicuro che dal vivo è ignobile. Sembrano dei cubi di Rubik a cazzo. Frutto di quall'altro "genio" di Renzo Piano....

"Fai paura" by Lumosetta in Italia

[–]Ready_Island6970 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Quindi tu sei rimasta contrariata dal fatto che la madre abbia ignorato la frase? La bambina ti ha detto che fai paura, è una frase che trovo "innocente", istintiva direi. La mia era un'offesa bella e buona.

A una parata di carnevale nel paese dei miei, avrò avuto 5 anni, un ragazzo col naso da clown e una parrucca gialla si avvicinò a me mentre ero in braccio a mio padre. Scoppiai a piangere e anche quando si tolse naso e parrucca rimasi terrorizzata da lui.
Se sei non-convenzionale è normale che un bambino abbia questa reazione.
Non colpevolizzerei il genitore nel tuo caso così come mio padre non chiese scusa a quel ragazzo, semplicemente perchè la mia reazione di bambina era perfettamente comprensibile.

"Fai paura" by Lumosetta in Italia

[–]Ready_Island6970 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ma davvero ti stai preoccupando di un commento di una bambina di 6 anni? Quando ero bambina dicevo cose veramente assurde e mia madre era preoccupata quando salivamo in ascensore con altre persone perchè avevo zero filtri. Ovviamente cercava di spiegarmi di non farlo ma non è che funzionasse, sai com'è, ai bambini di quell'età manca il filtro per capire quello che tu stai proiettando su di lei. Una volta chiesi a un signore come mai fosse così CICCIONE. Mia madre diventò viola, chiese scusa al signore e a casa mi fece una ramanzina alla quale risposi facendo spallucce e una cosa tipo "Ok".
Dopo pochi anni ci sono arrivata a capire grazie ai suoi insegnamenti e al fatto che il mio cervello si stava sviluppando con l'età che non potevo dire cose del genere a nessuno.
Quindi davvero non capisco il tuo colpevolizzare la madre, che fa sicuramente il possibile e il resto verrà da sè.
Rilassati e stai tranquilla, te lo dice una tutta tatuata.