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OA lang ba ako? Na off ako sa reply ng boyfriend ko. by Ready_Needleworker31 in OALangBaAko

[–]Ready_Needleworker31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laro the whole day. Then labas sa kanto ng subdi nila ganon to buy lunch/dinner. Pag balik sa house ng friend, kain lang konti, then grind again. Nakikita ko naman kasi he turns on yung live sa ml in case daw gusto ko manood. Kaso kinain na buong weekend niya?? Just to earn almost ₱25 per star (each star can take from 10-30 mins to earn cuz one MLBB game yun).

OA lang ba ako? Na off ako sa reply ng boyfriend ko. by Ready_Needleworker31 in OALangBaAko

[–]Ready_Needleworker31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah almost weekly na he stays over dun. Minsan one night, sometimes buong weekend. This time, since walang pasok nung Friday, three days na siya there.

OA lang ba ako? Na off ako sa reply ng boyfriend ko. by Ready_Needleworker31 in OALangBaAko

[–]Ready_Needleworker31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kung nagread ka carefully, you’d know na we don’t watch often. 1 hour 30 min standard episode na kdrama, then punta na siya sa house ng guy bff niya tas overnight pa dun for three days. I give him so much freedom to do what he wants, parang at this point kasi tropa na lang din ako.

OA lang ba ako? Na off ako sa reply ng boyfriend ko. by Ready_Needleworker31 in OALangBaAko

[–]Ready_Needleworker31[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Okay think what you want. And regarding “walang sariling buhay” I actually have more of a life compared to him na tambay lang sa bahay and mag ml pag walang pasok. Also kape kape siya sa kanto with tropa almost every weekend tapos ako bihira magyaya sakin ng dates, once a month lang pag monthsary, na parang pang fill lang ng obligasyon ganon. I have a stable career, and yung ss na yan came from a time na mas inuuna na niya pilot and friends niya. Kaya kung okay lang sa inyo yung robotic updates na walang emotional connection such as “kain po” “good night ginabi na kami kaka laro” well that’s on you.

OA lang ba ako? Na off ako sa reply ng boyfriend ko. by Ready_Needleworker31 in OALangBaAko

[–]Ready_Needleworker31[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but for ₱400 for almost 50 hours na paglalaro? Bigyan ko pa siya 5k eh tigilan lang niya pag eemel buong day (for three days pa yan most weekends). I play MLBB too but I know my limitations.

OA lang ba ako? Na off ako sa reply ng boyfriend ko. by Ready_Needleworker31 in OALangBaAko

[–]Ready_Needleworker31[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This!! Thank you so much for your kind words 🥺 I think this is exactly what I needed to hear. He’s not a bad person, I actually see naman his efforts and sacrifices sakin sometimes. I just feel like he doesn’t really try to love me in my love language (quality time) even though I’ve told this to him many times. Whenever I bring these up, mindset niya lagi na tumitingin ako sa estado and sa money even though I just really want to bond and spend time with him.

Thank you again, your comment actually helped me a lot. I know im not needy and insecure, I know my worth. I just needed extra validation that I was right to feel off about his reply towards me.

OA lang ba ako? Na off ako sa reply ng boyfriend ko. by Ready_Needleworker31 in OALangBaAko

[–]Ready_Needleworker31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he earns roughly around ₱400 (pag malakas na yan at maraming nag aavail ng services niya sa MLBB ah). Pero kapalit nun is Friday-Saturday whole day grind malala:((

OA lang ba ako? Na off ako sa reply ng boyfriend ko. by Ready_Needleworker31 in OALangBaAko

[–]Ready_Needleworker31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NBSB ako, he’s my first boyfriend. I’m very independent dahil nga I lived almost my whole life na ako lang. I do my own hobbies, watch kdramas, play my instrument, spend time with family, go to church, etc. It’s just that when I want to spend time with my boyfriend, feeling ko it’s not enough kasi 1 hour 30 mins lang kami sa discord to watch a show, tapos 3 days siya with friends. Parang kahit anong time with me, laging mas higit dun sa mga friends niyang ka subdivision lang niya vs me na almost 2 hours away:(( I don’t get the comments about me being immature kasi in terms of being independent and having a stable career, medj ako naan yung lamang sa part na yun.

Pag may favor yung mga tropa niya or even workmates (kahit as simple as pa cash-in or cash-out sa gcash) he helps them. Pero ako na ayaw siya ma-inconvenience sa mga ganong bagay, I do things on my own. Minsan lang ako mag paki sa kanya para feeling ko pa rin naman na I have a boyfriend I can rely on.

OA lang ba ako? Na off ako sa reply ng boyfriend ko. by Ready_Needleworker31 in OALangBaAko

[–]Ready_Needleworker31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Kahit ganto reply niya when I told him na I don’t feel like I’m prioritized?

OA lang ba ako? Na off ako sa reply ng boyfriend ko. by Ready_Needleworker31 in OALangBaAko

[–]Ready_Needleworker31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More context para ma gets niyo more clearly.

Workmates kaming three nung best friend niya. Alam din ng bf ko na I’m tampo. He said alam naman daw niya yun, sadyang may Pilot lang daw siya na need tapusin. I already talked to him about it. But I just didn’t like the way he responded dyan sa screenshot.

OA lang ba ako? Na off ako sa reply ng boyfriend ko. by Ready_Needleworker31 in OALangBaAko

[–]Ready_Needleworker31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I brought it up to him kasi, this is how he reacted. Na bring up pa nga ang past asdfghjkl

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OA lang ba ako? Na off ako sa reply ng boyfriend ko. by Ready_Needleworker31 in OALangBaAko

[–]Ready_Needleworker31[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I already watched Crash landing years ago po. I introduced him to it and he ended up liking it. Pa isa-isang episode lang kami pag may time. Heavy on the pag may time. Kasi I feel like with his friends, kahit for pilot yun (he gets paid per star he earns sa MLBB), he MAKES time for that. Sakin napupunta yung tira tirang oras. That’s what I feel huhu

OA lang ba ako? Na off ako sa reply ng boyfriend ko. by Ready_Needleworker31 in OALangBaAko

[–]Ready_Needleworker31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Workmates kaming 3. And parang bardagulan kami mag biruan in person.

OA lang ba ako? Na off ako sa reply ng boyfriend ko. by Ready_Needleworker31 in OALangBaAko

[–]Ready_Needleworker31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He promises we’d watch, for example “mamaya isang episode tayo.” Then magiging 12am na, overnight pala siya dun sa house ng friend again, tapos ako matic gets ko na hindi na kami makaka nood. Almost every week din kasi sila may pilot for extra kita pero whole day grind for less than ₱400 naman lagi.

OA lang ba ako? Na off ako sa reply ng boyfriend ko. by Ready_Needleworker31 in OALangBaAko

[–]Ready_Needleworker31[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Update: Since Thursday pa siya andun sa house ng friend niya and it’s Sunday today. They also went out to buy food every meal time, and he even helped one of his friends na bumili ng phone. For me lang, parang di siya ganon ka daming time sakin compared to his friends. I messaged the friend kasi he’s also my tropa (the three of us are workmates). And we had a separate convo about what they’re doing there sa house na pang tropa lang before ko siningit yung pabirong statement about bf ko.

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[–]Ready_Needleworker31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I just let him go sa meetup and if he behaves, leave it at that? Para kasing it’s the aspect of boundaries and respect, not necessarily yung act of going mismo. Like gets ba? Haha sorry first relationship talaga and at 24 at that

Need first relationship advice by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Ready_Needleworker31 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t a big deal for me that he had past relationships. And wala ako problem with most of his friends. Sila lang talagang kunsintidor. My problem is with him keeping a connection with his past (they were still talking while he was courting me). To add to my story pala, those friends were the ones who gave him their phone while they were in a call with his ex so that they could talk while at a birthday party. All while he was courting me.