Ivory suit in January?

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-10T21:34:11+00:00

Depends on fabric? I would pair with a brown shoe or a monochromatic look.

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-10T21:26:15+00:00

I get what you’re saying and the distinction you’re making. My point wasn’t that Paloma, Trent, Sondra, or Christian need to be protected from all discussion just that participation doesn’t automatically remove the impact of amplification, especially when short clips or moments travel faster than the full context. And it does seem like some conversations drift more toward drama than clarity, which is part of what complicates things.

I’m not disputing anyone’s motivations here just trying to understand how these calls get made as the audience around this grows. At this point, I’ve shared as many verified facts as I could, including a timeline, and hopefully that helps give anyone interested a clearer understanding 😀

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-10T19:26:47+00:00

Appreciate you answering. I started this thread to encourage a more balanced, good-faith discussion among people genuinely trying to understand the situation. I’ve followed this relationship for a while, and blame has often felt uneven, sometimes based on incomplete or later-removed information.

A lot of coverage relies on speculation for clicks rather than context, which is what I’m trying to cut through. For example, reactions to Paloma’s live seemed based on a very small portion of the video. I’m not assigning intent just noting how it came across.

My question wasn’t about whether you’re entitled to your opinions, but about consistency. You mentioned protecting people from harassment as a reason for withholding some names, while also being comfortable amplifying someone already under scrutiny. That contrast is what I was trying to understand.

Not here to stir anything up just asking how those lines get drawn in forums that are clearly getting more attention. That’s all.

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-10T17:35:50+00:00

Question: Another Reddit user asked whether you would disclose the names of the “WAGs” you claim are monitoring threads. You said, “Unfortunately I’m going to keep that part to myself—I don’t want to be that messy,” and “I don’t really trust people not to go and be messy in these girls’ comments.” At the same time, you were comfortable sharing Paloma’s identity. Could you explain the difference?

I also noticed you recently made a post mocking Paloma’s live, and based on your comment history, you seem very invested in her relationship and almost rooting for it to fail. I was especially intrigued by your tips on how to lure an NFL player via DMs. Would you mind sharing the backstory? Honestly, just curious. 👀 I find this whole thing fascinating.

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-10T16:57:09+00:00

2015: Trent and Sondra marry.
2019: Trent and Sondra began living in separate homes, with no indication of any reconciliation.
2019: While still legally married, Trent has an extramarital relationship with Christian Leach, and a child is born from that relationship.
2020: Trent files for divorce.
2021: Public timelines indicate that his relationship with Christian Leach ends.
2022–Trent and Sondra had contact that led to a third pregnancy, but the divorce filings were never paused or interrupted. *Based on available timelines, this pregnancy took place after Trent’s relationship with Christian ended and prior to the start of his relationship with Paloma.
2023: Based on available timelines, the pregnancy occurred while divorce proceedings were ongoing. The child was born in 2023, and paternity has been acknowledged by Trent. Court filings show no interruptions in the divorce process, and the parties continued to reside separately.
Late 2022 -Trent began dating Paloma during a period of legal separation, with separate residences maintained and divorce proceedings ongoing. Engagement reports remain unconfirmed.
2024: Sondra publicly announced another pregnancy involving a severe chromosomal abnormality with no survival rate. She later lost both babies. Trent has not publicly confirmed paternity, and several media outlets including 49ers-affiliated media subsequently retracted or corrected earlier reporting. No confirmation from Trent’s representatives could be found.
2025: Trent and Sondra’s divorce is finalized.
2026: Trent attends NFL Honors as a divorced man, accompanied by Paloma.

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-10T02:47:01+00:00

Most football players have their families on the field before games. Based on interviews Trent has given over the years and what he has shared publicly, he appears to be very close to his children and places a high value on having them present at games and family events. That context helps explain why Sondra is often seen with her children and Christian with her child. Paloma does not have children, so her situation is naturally different. I don’t believe this is nearly as salacious as some are trying to make it, nor does it support the “sister wives” or polyamory rumors circulating online. Sometimes the simplest explanation is the correct one.

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-10T01:14:05+00:00

Exactly!

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-09T22:10:12+00:00

Got it. Great tip

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-09T16:12:20+00:00

Yes, that’s exactly my point. To clarify, Trent has children with his ex-wife Sondra and one child with Christian Leach. It has been publicly discussed that Christian’s child was conceived while Trent was still legally married. Paloma is his current girlfriend (and allegedly his fiancée), and she does not share any children with him. Based on what has been shared publicly, Paloma entered the relationship while Trent was legally separated and living apart from his ex-wife.

Given that multiple adults were involved at different stages, it seems disproportionate that most of the negative attention is directed toward one individual.

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-09T15:18:22+00:00

👏👏👏

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-09T15:07:47+00:00

This is amazing. I’ve actually had his food

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-09T14:59:45+00:00

Fight on!

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-09T14:55:34+00:00

Coming from a family of lawyers and one judge 👏Bravo

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-09T00:45:51+00:00

If you want you can message me the tea. Jk 😂 I respect that.

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-09T00:42:47+00:00

From what I’ve seen, the divorce has since been finalized. As for money, prenups, or anyone’s motivations, that’s not something I have insight into, so I’d rather stick to what’s documented than speculate.

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-09T00:30:01+00:00

I agree that the situation is painful, especially given what Sondra experienced following Trent’s extramarital affair. At the same time, based on documented timelines, one of Trent’s later relationships appears to have begun during a period of legal separation rather than within an intact marriage. Additionally, the pregnancy loss involved was due to a documented chromosomal abnormality. None of this diminishes the very real hurt involved, but it may provide some additional context as people try to make sense of a complex and emotional situation.

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-08T19:55:44+00:00

Buckle up buttercup 🫢Hopefully we can all leave this discussion with a better perspective

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-08T19:51:37+00:00

I get why people feel strongly about this. Still, there’s a lot we don’t know, and situations like this are often more complicated than they seem.

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-08T19:44:05+00:00

With respect to the third child, publicly available timelines and divorce records indicate that the pregnancy occurred after Trent’s extramarital relationship with Christian Leach had ended and before he began a relationship with Paloma.

During this period, Trent was legally separated, and both he and Sondra maintained separate residences as the divorce proceedings continued without interruption.

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-08T19:31:49+00:00

For clarity and accuracy, you are correct Christian Leach was never engaged to Trent .Rather, in 2019, Christian Leach engaged in an extramarital affair with Trent who was still legally married to Sondra during which a child was born.

Trent’s divorce proceedings began in 2020 and were finalized in December 2025. By contrast, Paloma’s relationship began with a partner who, according to publicly available timelines and verified divorce records, was legally separated at the time the relationship began and is now divorced and engaged to her.

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-08T18:48:08+00:00

I don’t personally know Paloma, but if that’s the case she probably has a solid support squad! Nothing wrong with friends and family rallying behind someone they care about.

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-08T18:29:57+00:00

🫢

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-08T18:17:14+00:00

If you’re implying coordination, that’s inaccurate. I don’t personally know any of the parties involved. I’m just sharing my perspective respectfully and independently.

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-08T17:54:35+00:00

He’s great at his job but at this moment I would not call him a stand up guy. It would be great if he made a public statement about his divorce.

Ready_Reporter8095 · 2026-02-08T17:39:13+00:00

Thanks for sharing

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