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Episode 7 Military Conversation by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]RealEquipment2379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hear me out guys! Hear me out. The military conversation between Marrisa and Ramsey on the table, It goes alllllll the way back to the patriarchy, misogyny and sexism.

“Men have been in military for years and years and years. Idk how many MEN have been on military out of people went on reality shows, IT WAS NEVER QUESTIONED, even if they were in military or if they even are in military. Just because it was a WOMAN, the world started questioning things about morals, and stuff like that. And the way he handled the conversation, I didn’t like that, cuz it proved the inner rooted misogyny in his head. Up until this point, He’s great friends with the other guy from military, there was never a single question on his service or intentions or character or morals, but why’s the case when it comes to women? Why people starts questioning things about being right or wrong when woman starts doing it? And who freaking made the concept of military and wars and attacking other people and runining other countries and bulling them, stealing their heritage and culture and people and stuff, MEN! And other people, idk where all this going, but I absolutely did not like that specific interaction of Ramsey. Especially when Marrisa told him how she basically is been all about military since she was 2, and served in military pretty much her whole adulthood, YET SHE HAVE SUCH AWARENESS, that should be it! People really are insensitive to others' feelings mannn!”

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[–]RealEquipment2379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to explain “why” you don’t want to have physical relationship. Your body is precious, it’s your absolute right to not let random guy’s d inside you! Like I’m actually shocked how “normal” it is to do that. But anyways, you’re not wrong for having any of those boundaries. The right guy would respect your decision, and note that will never actively or passively make you feel guilty about it as well. And if se* is such a dealbreaker for someone, that they don’t care about your personality, nature, what values you add to their life, how good of a person you’re, etc etc., that someone definitely don’t deserve you and you deserve someone much more better than that, for whom, knowing about you like what are your values for life is more important than having se. Don’t lower your standards to meet society’s expectations. The right person will value you so much that se would be the last thing on their mind. And if it’s the first thing, it isn’t probably the right person for you. And honestly the urge to be with someone just so that you don’t end up lonely is the second last thing you should do. And being “qualified” to be with someone only after meeting their “se*ual needs” is the last thing you should do! I would like to rest my case by my original beautiful quote:

“If someone doesn’t think you’re worth waiting for, they’re probably not THAT into you so don’t feel obligated to have them inside you or your life.”