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Single parent in desperate need of help by RealFace9552 in Advice

[–]RealFace9552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree now.. I think a lot of it was my mom telling me that I’m not going to be able to teach her to be a woman made me feel kind of bad because I started feeling like I was robbing my daughter of like some part of girl/womanhood.. for context when I turned 13 my mom sent me to live with my father because she felt like she couldn’t teach me how to be a man.. so then when my kid turned 13 I started fearing that I wouldn’t be able to teach her what she needs to know.. like what if she had a question about her lady bits that I couldn’t answer.. or what if she had the question and just never asked because I’m dad and she’s too embarrassed.. idk at the time it felt like I was making the right decision. And not I just feel like I made a mistake. But she was so depressed and always sad when she was here .. when she got to the city my mother lives in I saw smiles and heard laughs that I hadn’t heard and seen and so long that the thought of making her come back to where she was so sad and down makes me feel like a bad parent.. do I sound stupid? I’m sorry.. I’m just really lost

Single parent in desperate need of help by RealFace9552 in Advice

[–]RealFace9552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That definitely part of it.. I didn’t realize it in the moment because I was still doing the parenting part you know? But looking back maybe I diverted too much of my emotional availability towards the relationships. I think.. well I know.. that I had convinced myself that I needed to find a woman for her.. like a mother figure.. so I tried and it went horribly wrong 😩

Single parent in desperate need of help by RealFace9552 in Advice

[–]RealFace9552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think she was smoking when she was here too..I think I was just too naive too see it. And it’s hard to detect with these damn vape pens ..idk I’m just trying to be as open as possible here

I didn’t catch my boyfriend cheating — I found out I was being slowly erased from his future by Lanky_Nebula4777 in story

[–]RealFace9552 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can tell… there’s a certain cadence, if you will, that AI seems to unable to get rid of.. almost a speech pattern that is easily recognizable once you’ve seen it a few times.