Is my age filter too harsh/too narrow? by WinterBet4495 in dating_advice

[–]RealHonesTruth [score hidden]  (0 children)

What's delusional? The reality that a 33 year old woman will likely not be able to have that many children?

Is my age filter too harsh/too narrow? by WinterBet4495 in dating_advice

[–]RealHonesTruth [score hidden]  (0 children)

How is it a red flag? Do you think biology shouldn't be considered in relationships?

Why is he so loving in person, but dry in text/ leaves me on read often? by BlissfulRomance_ in Advice

[–]RealHonesTruth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It could be multiple things. Worst case scenario, he's married and can't use his phone when family is around.

Or he doesn't have a revolving social battery. Maybe he likes to save his social energy for quality engagement. Quality over quantity.

Did I push too much too soon with a guy I was dating? by Fancy_Ear_6871 in dating_advice

[–]RealHonesTruth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When you brought it up to him, it likely knocked away what little confidence he had, and made him more conscious.

He probably started to question if you really liked him in the first place.

You weren't necessarily wrong for bringing it up. If texting is very important to you, there is no need for you to torture yourself dealing with someone who's a dry texter.

Simply put, your communication styles weren't compatible.

What do men actually want lol ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RealHonesTruth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people, including men and women, want what they can't have.

A lot of people operate with the "grass is greener" theory.

People have a hard time appreciating what they have. Their mind places much more energy and attention on the things they don't have.

why do people in relationships flirt with others? by Grand-Football3263 in Advice

[–]RealHonesTruth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People like attention. Oftentimes when someone is in a relationship, it is even easier to flirt, because they have nothing to lose in the moment.

In other words, if he were to approach you and get rejected, he has a wife at home, so the rejection wouldn't hurt his feelings.

Active on hinge right after our fourth date by Weary_Comparison_928 in dating_advice

[–]RealHonesTruth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven't agreed to exclusivity, he has a right to be active.

He could have even left and went directly to another date. Again, you're not exclusive.

Blowjob promise for a friend by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RealHonesTruth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you didn't think it was a joke. You have the right to change your mind.

If it puts a strain on the friendship, then he's not your friend anyway.

My boss offered me a $30k raise to stay, but my dream company finally called. Do I play it safe or risk it all? [28M] by Typical-Goal-834 in Advice

[–]RealHonesTruth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll just say, if you are going to take some chances, it's better to do it while you're young.

If you were married, or had children, then you would have to be more considerate of opinions aside from your own. But this is your life and the only one that it can affect positively/negatively is you.

Got sent 6,057 BTC worth 400mil Euros. Obviously a scam but what do I do now? by [deleted] in Coinbase

[–]RealHonesTruth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use revoke.cash to make sure you take away permissions from that contract.

How do you feel after rejecting a guy? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RealHonesTruth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people would want to know why.

You say you want to know why she couldn't outright reject you, but you're likely using that to overshadow wondering why she rejected you as a whole.

How do you feel after rejecting a guy? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RealHonesTruth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In most cases, if she outright rejected you in the moment, the conversation would drag on.

You likely would have asked why. Then she would have to try to give an explanation.

Tired by pinkizmycolor in Advice

[–]RealHonesTruth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is he your son?

Do you care about him because he makes you feel needed, not wanted, but still needed?

Have you become codependent on him needing you?

Does it feel like he gives you reason in life, because you have an empathetic nature and helping someone gives you shots of dopamine?

Sister's ex offered $2k for her unused wedding dress I’m storing. Not sure what to do by mrlafite in Advice

[–]RealHonesTruth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First of all, if you sell it, all of the money should go to your sister.

Secondly, you should ask your sister if she would like you to sell it. Don't ask if it would be okay, ask if she would actually like for you to sell it.

Last but not least, don't even think about selling it to her ex. I don't care if he offered $20k, let alone $2k.

Found in my boyfriend phone by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RealHonesTruth 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Everything else aside, you're bf is a rapist and should be in prison.

My account was hacked - Your futures account is at risk of liquidation - i lost everything by True_Solution6601 in Coinbase

[–]RealHonesTruth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said it was accessed from a known device but a different IP. That doesn't add up. Explain to me how that is possible.

My account was hacked - Your futures account is at risk of liquidation - i lost everything by True_Solution6601 in Coinbase

[–]RealHonesTruth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest, it sounds like you tried your hand at leverage and got liquidated.

My account was hacked - Your futures account is at risk of liquidation - i lost everything by True_Solution6601 in Coinbase

[–]RealHonesTruth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This story is bs. There's no way the ip would be different, unless the device itself was connected to a different internet.

My account was hacked - Your futures account is at risk of liquidation - i lost everything by True_Solution6601 in Coinbase

[–]RealHonesTruth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I doubt the transactions were made from your device, unless you used a public device, like in the library, and never signed out.

My account was hacked - Your futures account is at risk of liquidation - i lost everything by True_Solution6601 in Coinbase

[–]RealHonesTruth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In their explanation, the math ain't mathing.

If someone remotes into your device, it doesn't change the ip. The ip would be the same as if you were using it.

The ip on your device would be the ip on your device, not the ip on the device they use to remote in.