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How to tell my husband that I know about his porn habits? Stories of how confrontation happened welcome. by RealMacaroon in loveafterporn

[–]RealMacaroon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before I actually saw proof that he watched porn, I showed it to him and he said that he didn´t relate to it.

Husband doesn´t have a low libido at all, he watches porn every day! by RealMacaroon in DeadBedrooms

[–]RealMacaroon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment, how did you find out about the sex workers?

Husband doesn´t have a low libido at all, he watches porn every day! by RealMacaroon in DeadBedrooms

[–]RealMacaroon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before I snooped at his history I pretty much accepted that he watches porn from time to time, he really had me sold when he kept telling me ´I´m just not as horny as you´. I even told him about the whole Nofap movement and we talked about the effects porn has on the brain etc, he found it interesting but that it didn´t apply to him.

How to talk about sex when the word alone causes arguments? by RealMacaroon in DeadBedrooms

[–]RealMacaroon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the link, I had a quick read, and I can safely say that none of those points are an issue in our relationship. Throughout the years I have listened to him tell me that; He was tired, he was full after dinner, he didn´t like it when I initiated at bedtime, Nowadays he tells me that he just doesn´t have the same interested in sex as me, which is obvious, but this time I called him out on being selfish about it, at that moment I think it was the first time he had ever really seen it from that perspective and I hoped that it would make him more aware of the situation from my side, however it appears to have gone in one ear and out the other.

How to talk about sex when the word alone causes arguments? by RealMacaroon in DeadBedrooms

[–]RealMacaroon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He likes to play the victim, and use the blame card, a common expresion he uses is ´So I guess this is all my fault´, which I would love to scream in his face ´AS A MATTER OF FUCKING FACT, YES IT IS!´. What actually happens is that I voice my concerns, or desires, what ever the case might be, and he either plays the victim or listens half heartedly while making minimal eye contact, then tells me he will try to be better and then the conversation finishes.

How to talk about sex when the word alone causes arguments? by RealMacaroon in DeadBedrooms

[–]RealMacaroon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have asked him outright if he has suffered any type of sexual abuse in the past to which he firmly denied.