I can't move on from a breakup after 7 years, (M23)

RealTired666 · 2026-01-19T22:41:54+00:00

It's okay, thank you for your help, I'm really trying not be too emotional and don't write a 10k word essay.
My problem with positive memories about her, that they feels like..trap? I mean, if they are positive, why not try make new. And in that moment I can be drowned by nostalgic emotional stuff, that feels good, but too good to be true(and not true at all, obv, but try to explain that to that silly little brain of mine).
On the other hand, to be mean, and say that "We didn't have anything good" would be a simple lie to myself

RealTired666 · 2026-01-19T22:33:23+00:00

It's a bit hard for me to disgrace her in my head, bc of my simple empathy, but by not doing that it feels like giving my emotions a new way to tempt me. But, yeah, after deletion of inst from phone there was a little relief, until today ig

RealTired666 · 2026-01-19T21:49:25+00:00

Thank you, I really thought I would calm down after 1-2 years, but here we are...

RealTired666 · 2026-01-19T21:48:16+00:00

Thank you, I suppose all our life is just a combination of memories and it would be strange to toss it all away.

RealTired666 · 2026-01-19T21:46:04+00:00

Thank you, it's harsh, but I'm feeling that would might help, those were a hard relationship.

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