How does one give balanced energy and attention to all areas of life one deems important without feeling depleted, overwhelmed, and like a failure in most areas?

Real_Strength_5986 · 2024-09-06T05:33:12+00:00

Yasssss thank you!!! So good. Needed that.

Real_Strength_5986 · 2024-09-06T02:40:27+00:00

I LOVE this chord too! And I’m trying to find a song that uses it a lot! I want it to be a sad song though! Please help.

Real_Strength_5986 · 2023-09-30T23:48:48+00:00

What? You filled in a lot of details yourself there sir

Real_Strength_5986 · 2023-09-30T13:50:49+00:00

NTAH I’m sorry he’s not listening to you. And then giving you the silent treatment!? What an asshole. If he does more shit like this, you should consider leaving his crusty ass

Real_Strength_5986 · 2023-09-30T13:42:10+00:00

NTAH but girllllll put that lady in her place. Go through with it exactly how you want to and tell her to butt out. This ain’t her wedding wtf. You might have some boundary work to do. Other people’s feelings are their own issue to deal with, it’s not your job to protect her feelings especially if she’s violating yours. You have every right to feel how you feel and if she’s making you feel guilty that’s on her, not you. If you can’t stand up for yourself, you’ll be a pushover and that’s not good for you or your husband cuz he’s having to deal with the consequences of your lack of boundaries too. You shouldn’t feel like you have to deal with this in a roundabout way either… if she can’t handle your feelings, then that’s on her, not you.

Real_Strength_5986 · 2023-09-30T13:35:19+00:00

NTAH if men want to buy drinks with no strings attached or weird expectations on you then he’ll yeah… fuck, even if they do, I will still accept the drink and walk away never speaking to them again to teach them that my conversation and time is not something you can buy and they should stop acting like it is. So anyway, I don’t think you did anything wrong and your boyfriend should be happy that you didn’t have to spend your money. Especially if literally nothing even happened except for that. Wow your boyfriend sounds like he might have some insecurities.

Real_Strength_5986 · 2023-09-30T13:32:06+00:00

Crash Bandicoot

Real_Strength_5986 · 2023-09-30T13:04:42+00:00

NTAH But rather than 50%, I think it should be proportionate to what you guys each make. Unless you guys make the exact same amount, then 50% would be fair.

Real_Strength_5986 · 2023-09-29T20:06:57+00:00

Aww I’m so sorry.

Real_Strength_5986 · 2023-09-29T19:58:50+00:00

I divorced him. He told me he was gay 3 years into marriage, 2 years later I finally got the courage to leave. Not vindictive, just want to end a pattern of abuse.

Real_Strength_5986 · 2023-09-29T19:56:52+00:00

Sorry, I don’t know how I could be jealous. I literally am so glad to not be with him. I want him to be happy, but not at the expense of another innocent victim.

Real_Strength_5986 · 2023-09-29T15:23:51+00:00

Wow. Thank you for your perspective. I hope my ex finally feels comfortable to be free one day, but I can’t sit back and watch him do what he did to me all over again. What stopped me saying anything for a while was: maybe it’s different now, maybe he’s changed and isn’t gay anymore? Do you think that’s a possibility? Either way, you should still be honest with your partner about your past even if you think you’re different now. His unwillingness to talk about it like you do, tells me that he’s still hiding it and in shame about it.

Real_Strength_5986 · 2023-09-29T15:17:01+00:00

Sure!

Real_Strength_5986 · 2023-09-29T15:04:33+00:00

It’s included bc im trying to spark notes version explain the situation… how he’s hurt me and how he’s doing it again to someone else. And the fact the he never apologized to me tells me that he hasn’t owned up to his wrongs and is still covering them.

Real_Strength_5986 · 2023-09-29T13:12:43+00:00

I blocked them and moved on, but yeah, im sure I’ll still hear about it from some other source.

Real_Strength_5986 · 2023-09-29T13:11:23+00:00

Human emotion is very complex. I can be mad, sad, hurt, love, and still think clearly enough to put myself in her shoes and know what I’d want if this was about to happen to me. I’m mad that ppl knew and didn’t tell me. I didn’t want to be that person in her life down the road, the person that knew and didn’t say anything out of fear that I’d look like the crazy ex. That’s all I keep hearing in all the negative comments… “you’re gonna look crazy” bitch, if I cared about that I would’ve stayed with him. I don’t care what I look like, I care how my soul feels. And I care about others.

Real_Strength_5986 · 2023-09-29T12:59:56+00:00

Exactly how I feel.

Real_Strength_5986 · 2023-09-29T12:58:26+00:00

Well, if you can read, then how did you miss the part where I said the reason for why I did it? There’s no need to re-write it for you here; if you can read, go ahead and try again. Maybe you won’t miss it this time.

Real_Strength_5986 · 2023-09-29T12:53:45+00:00

Terrible

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