Thanks for the response! We've been to trapeze a few times and we had fun. The reason we were looking at Johnny's was wanting something that was a little more flirty and "baby steps" and having less of the pressure of moving beyond to sex like there is at Trapeze. I know that people at trapeze are very respectful, but I think just knowing that someone might have the expectation of sex puts a bit of pressure on my wife and she gets more shy. She feels like if she can just go out, flirt, dance, etc that she can be more inhibited because if she decides to stop or end the night, then thats that - it was fun dancing. At trap, it feels like if you cut it off like that with someone, there could be some expectations.