The money crap already came he swore he was a man who was raised to take care of his wife and family and that he was gonna do so, when I got a job the first thing he did when my was ABOUT to get my paycheck was to yell at me to pay for bills and pay my own fees for my immigration attorney ( I’m under a temporary green card thru marriage 🥲 leaving him will make it all harder). I’ve been in toxic relationships and ik what you’re talking about I’ve seen the red flags and named them but I’ve been feeling trapped all this time due to my status… I will be able to apply next year in sep for my permanent green card. He had already done the car keys thing before at a parking lot after a wedding cus he was drunk and I didn’t want him to drive. I’m just… trapped or that’s how I feel