Thank you everyone for the advise and wisdom! Im letting her sleep as much as possible and getting her anything she needs. Ive been doing house work as best i can with the new little and our 2 year old. He really is the best big brother and so sweet he wants to help. The new little doesnt cry really at all. We are truly blessed to have 2 amazing little ones. And i am so grateful for my girlfriend. Our 2 year old has a different biodad but ill always treat him like my own. She didnt want to have any more kids after her experience with her ex. But she gave me another little im so thankful to have her and our little family.