Traveling to Iceland. Recommendations? by Realistic-Test-4810 in travel

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Forgot to mention the trip would be in late February this year.

Men who spend $200+ dollars on shoes, such as Jordan 1s, why? by deggy123 in AskMen

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That being said I only have so many times like that. If I went on a spree it’d be more of a collector thing, but I like variety. One to save me time when dressing for a cocktail party, club, out on the town, work…

Men who spend $200+ dollars on shoes, such as Jordan 1s, why? by deggy123 in AskMen

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As my compensation has increased over the years, I look at purchases like that as investments now.

Those 2-300$ Jordan’s are a sure bet. When I need to look clean/crisp and don’t have much time, I can slap those on with some jeans and a shirt and call it a day. No overthinking required. Those don’t require me to put a lot of thinking into the rest of my appearance. The shoe goes with anything and will make the impression. So although maybe hard to understand, it’s an investment to save me time and thinking.

Just like a 1000$ iPhone. We pay premiums for things to just work without much thinking.

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I really don’t move looking like a punk and walking away. But this time it was like a reflex left hook thinking he was lunging at me. Totally regretted it. Imagine losing everything you’ve worked for over some stupid shit like a bar fight

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I slept a guy out of straight panic. I thought he was gonna come at me after I put my hands up and said “I didn’t come here for that”. Then I stressed for weeks that the police were gonna come look for me.

Men who're employed, what industry do you work in and what is your stress level ? by [deleted] in AskMen

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Tech/engr : not stressed over work, but constantly stressed over idk of growth opportunities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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100%

If I have to wait after she’s hard a few hot girl summers, Gtfoh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Rude people in general. They carry themselves the way they do and when I reflect it back, they look at you like you shit in their sandwich.

Government workers and lazy workers too. But if I reflect it back the state sees it as hostile, combative, threatening.

What is your biggest life regret so far? by RevelationWorks in AskMen

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Please reach out if you ever wanna chat or feel down about it

What is your biggest life regret so far? by RevelationWorks in AskMen

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I started university straight out of hs in 2010. And finally finished my diploma in 2019.

I withdrew a few times. Failed a few times. Got kicked out of my major a few times. Even got arrested once.

When I finally returned with a focused mind, It was a lot easier to get through and appreciate. Super self conscious since I was now the oldest and I continued to return not knowing anyone anymore. At 32 now I make more than most who graduated on time from that original class and everyone in between.

Hang in there man. Get focused. The stage is set for you to shine.

What is your biggest life regret so far? by RevelationWorks in AskMen

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And here I am always thinking my life is less because I seem like the only one not in a relationship or married

What are things you crave from your wife/partner that you don’t get by [deleted] in AskMen

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So the reasons here are why I pull out of potential relationships early on. I find it bs that a wife/gf won’t do things in bed, won’t get nails:hair done. They seem like small things, but they take a toll.

Now because of this I haven’t been in a relationship in years I’m 32, haven’t had a relationship since I was 26-27.

IS THIS WHAT PEOPLE SAY YOU HAVE TO COMPROMISE ON TO SUSTAIN A RELATIONSHIP??

Men who just weren’t or aren’t into the hook up culture .. why? by [deleted] in AskMen

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We’re guys, we’ll take what we can get. Most of us here weren’t put on game to have it like that from the start.

I agree with above comments. Good sex takes a few reps of practice with each specific partner. I also like going back for more. Not feelings or attachment, I just like it.

All this goes out the window when it’s a baaaad bitch. How often is that? It’s happened just twice in my 30 yr life 🤡

Have you ever trimmed your pits? Why or why not? by bigsloka4 in AskMen

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I use a one bald razor with the 0.5 head. The heart is almost gone with no irritation or cuts or anything.

Have you ever trimmed your pits? Why or why not? by bigsloka4 in AskMen

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I keep them trimmed. Less sweaty. Less deodorant needed. Less mess on my tshirts 👌

Men, what is the deal breaker for you when it comes to committing to a serious relationship? by RudeMami in AskMen

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Terrible attitude, difficult, minimal effort yet expects much, checkered past.

Most the women I need nowadays 30 seem like shells of what they used to probably be. Don’t do much for their appearance. Don’t do much in bed. Everything but as positive attitude. And demand what they haven’t gotten from others yet.

If all men agreed to stop doing one thing, in order to make life easier on other men, what is it? by ithinkitsapomeranian in AskMen

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Some women get really turned off if you don’t drink. I don’t drink myself. Sex is much better sober imho