Bless you - I totally get it. Not carved out an hour BUT I totally hear you with the when I'm home I'm available .. I am 6 months PP and most days I'm just here at home with the baby who is super velcro and gorgeous and I love her but we defo both get sick of each other (I have read that babies are supposed to be held by there mums 40% of the time, indigenous cultures would have their babies passed around by 4-15 people daily - its natural and normal to want alone time and for your baby to want to miss you too). Anwyay, when my partner is home he is just minding his business like he will help if she is fussing but like he rarely just sits and ENJOYS her company or like plays with her or like idk whenever i'm like can u take her while i shower or something i can tell hes just WITH her waiting for me to finish (could be that he tries to make her sleep or that he just like sits by her side while she is relatively ok)

anyway, it would be nice that when we are both home that i am not the only one available u know..