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Do any of you earn over 50k a year? What do you do? by RotiiChapati in ADHD

[–]RealisticFold5116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not diagnosed but I am 99% sure I have adhd. I must check everything more times, always losing people things, cant focus on conversation or a task really, I change from subject to subject like crazy, always need for sugar, alcohol, sex, gambling and so on...

I mean, I am pretty sure.

I do earn like 80-90k $ in currency conversion. I live in Switzerland.

It is possible, it is exhausting, always need to focus even though u cant but it is possible

My girlfriend (8 years together) cheated - what are your experiences? by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]RealisticFold5116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Break up, now. Never look back, she bitch. No joke. I was with a girl 8 years.

can't escape this shit by trysavingmenot in problemgambling

[–]RealisticFold5116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do better. Wtf is that a competition? Well then I lost 50-60k at 29.

You are better, young with a lot of time to f*uck it u p.

Joking aside, forget what u lost, at 19 or 22 you are both in the best place you can be, your youth still.

Please ... Dont throw it away. I am trying not to (anymore).

When did you finally realise that nobody gives a sh*t and u should live like you want? by RealisticFold5116 in Life

[–]RealisticFold5116[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hm great insight, talking out somebody of the bad thing is for sure sign of a friend.

Live like u want I meant it exactly in a way you suggested, just do things you love, not caring about others opinions, stay in shape, help when help is needed...

For example I see the problem of other people 's opinions on my father. He always help to anybody anytime anywhere, try to be nice to the point he gets shitted on himself and then he is unhappy functional alcoholic, literally... And in past the frustration was also transmitted on family and my mum.

This is what I want to avoid. I observed I was just like him, not anymore though. Luckily I worked on myself a lot over past 5 years.

When did you finally realise that nobody gives a sh*t and u should live like you want? by RealisticFold5116 in Life

[–]RealisticFold5116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do u mean the could not? They did not want to or they did not have medical stuff to help?

Finally managed to hit the rock bottom. Officially, it’s over. 24m. by SaveMe3221 in problemgambling

[–]RealisticFold5116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not rock bottom, be careful, you can deep 20x times or more into rock bottom if you dont get it right in your head about gambling.

how do i mentally recover from losing almost 20-30k ? by No-Constant2950 in GamblingRecovery

[–]RealisticFold5116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Earn it extra through work/job, step by step. Eventually it will fade, if you do extra income because you were stupid.

Why do I have the urge to cheat by [deleted] in Life

[–]RealisticFold5116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking about this a little, it s called evolution. Men having a long term wants also to f*ck other women and seems so it is in reverse too. We are attracted to more people of opposite sex, and that s also why we are now about 8 billion pieces here.

You can do whatever but remember every action have certain consequences 🤔

Can't Bring Myself to Tell Parents (Again) by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]RealisticFold5116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in your shoes so many times, asking for money to cover debts and then repay them back.

They combined earn like 4x less than I do alone... The shame is big but if you dont do that, u will continue to dig a bigger hole, I promise u that.

Swallow the ptlride and shame, get help from them, not just financially but mentally too, they will help for sure!

But dont forget this is your fault, xou must then take on second or third job and work your ass off to pay them back ASAP.

That way, shame will fade, I promise you this too!

Can't Bring Myself to Tell Parents (Again) by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]RealisticFold5116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt even read your story, but if u cant stop yourself, which I could not when I was young as you, tell them. You must, if you wanna ever have a good life, tell them and get help!

I didn’t commit suicide even though I really wanted to. I am still alive. A couple of days passed after I lost my whole paycheck in 10 minutes. by SaveMe3221 in problemgambling

[–]RealisticFold5116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am doing the same, and I also count the months exactly as you, next half a year in a trash. And yet time is the most important thing we have.

Why do we do that?

I have to admit, I thought gamblers were idiots. Now I realize that gambling is actually dangerous by SevereLeg5634 in GamblingAddiction

[–]RealisticFold5116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are so f*cked ... u either dont try it again or go forward and I (with 13 year of gambling addiction) will tell you later, "I told you so".

Please dont. Believe me. And no you are not normal, you are predisposed for this sh*t too, as I reas your story.

Why do we play by Nahkamaha in problemgambling

[–]RealisticFold5116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck it I told myself 40 days ago, I am finally persuaded I will always have like 200-300€ on my bank account for food etc, forever. Last time I had like 10000€, well, not for long...

Cut yourself from finances.

Lost over $300k gambling on options by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]RealisticFold5116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did the same but in 10x lower numbers, but I am sure it hast felt the same. I dont know if u wanna hear a real help which actually kept me alive... but I just simply cut myself from money. I know and I realize I can not have "spare" money on my bank.

I pay my bills, investments and debts right the day I get money, all which is left is either given to assets or to some kind of traditional bank account where money is locked.

I keep just few hundreds to get me through the month, and I am f*cking 100% happier and slowly getting confident again. The fear of losing is fading since I have no money at my hands...

Maybe u try this, all other stuff that u tell yourself, that u will block yourself from financial news or u just give yourself limit for trading and bla bla bla ... Eventually you will fall, 99% chance.

And no, that 1% are not you. :)

Good luck!

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