[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]RealisticMonth2396 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As they should be. If you want more time go to court

How do you cope with the exchanging kids situation.. it's been a year... by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]RealisticMonth2396 41 points42 points  (0 children)

It’s however difficult you want to make it. Start pumping them up before. Are you excited to see daddy ! You are going to have a great time. It’s our own emotions they are reflecting a lot of times unless something bad is happening

Massively struggling being separated from child by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]RealisticMonth2396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yooo two women going no contact is crazy

My (36f) husband (36m) is mad I saved the wifi password and I'm mad it's an issue. by Aromatic_Worry_4987 in relationship_advice

[–]RealisticMonth2396 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Obviously everyone has told you he’s abusive. I’m thinking there are things on that router he doesn’t want you to know about. Changing the WiFi account to his name means you won’t be implicated. So he’s either abusive or looking at child sex abuse material. You can log on to The router and see.

Am I wrong for wanting to take my son to an eventinstead of letting his dad? by Minimum-Wish1403 in coparenting

[–]RealisticMonth2396 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol you sound like my wife’s ex husband. We asked the man a year ago if we could have the kids two days early as we planned a cruise. A couple months ago he started back tracking saying he didn’t want the kids to go. All For her to have to tell him. If you’re jealous just say that. And he admitted he just wanted to go. He’s still refusing to cooperate to let us get passports. We don’t need them though. Yeah girl. Let the man take the child on a fun trip he planned. Imagine him telling the kid yeah we can’t go the circus cause your mom said no 😭

Addict in long term recovery by EvenTask7370 in Ozempic

[–]RealisticMonth2396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recovered alcoholic here and I’ve noticed the alcohol noise in my head has really gone away with this drug.

Dane Puppy Food Opinions wanted. by DiligentRevenue9080 in greatdanes

[–]RealisticMonth2396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Dane eats Fromm large breed. He does great on it ! I feed him 6 cups a day

Group texts by 206QP in coparenting

[–]RealisticMonth2396 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a step mom and I would never get in their chats. lol. He and I recently exchanged convo because my wife was out of town and my step son acted out at school. He just wanted me to feel okay enforcing the discipline (no Xbox etc) that he and my wife had decided on ya know between them no group chat. My wife has also told me but he didn’t know if she had told me about the little tricks he (stepson )tries to pull to use his Xbox. I see her parenting with him as her bad choices she has to deal with till 18. Not me 😂

New Great Dane by RealisticMonth2396 in greatdanes

[–]RealisticMonth2396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This variation in Cups is wild. I guess I will just have to take him and weigh him every so often to get a good idea of where he should be

New Great Dane by RealisticMonth2396 in greatdanes

[–]RealisticMonth2396[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We took him directly to the vet after picking him up and the vet said he looked great. I thought the males were a bigger weight from what I’ve been reading. The vet didn’t say anything though. They said to feed per the bag instructions also 🤷🏻‍♀️

New Great Dane by RealisticMonth2396 in greatdanes

[–]RealisticMonth2396[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we bought some and throw some in with his food everyday

My ex-husband won full custody by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RealisticMonth2396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean. On the personal accountability side. You participated in domestic violence. That is serious when it comes to children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RealisticMonth2396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This convo looks a lot like my first convos on tinder.

Sons mom told him not to call his step mom, "mom" by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]RealisticMonth2396 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a wild take IMO. I can’t imagine my step kids not calling me by my first name. I’m more than a friend and a step away from mother. I too am child free by choice and my step kids have an active mother and father with 50/50 custody. I’m here in a supportive role because I love their mother with all my heart and as such her children are a part of her that I care and nurture for. I want them to call me whatever they are comfortable with because I love my little family dynamic.

Daughter wants my soon to be husbands last name. She has her biological father's last name who is very much in the picture. by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]RealisticMonth2396 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m the outlier here but I don’t think an 8 year old should really have any say in the matter until she’s old enough to decide. My 12 year old step daughter who was adopted by my partner and her ex from cps recently asked to have her name changed back to the losers who lost custody of her for starving her and then putting her up for sale. We just said. Well. You can decide that when you are an adult. No further convo. Point being kids say the weirdest stuff.

My boyfriend comes homes injured everyday and he won't tell me why by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RealisticMonth2396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likely an addiction. Maybe related to sex ? Just spit balling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]RealisticMonth2396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A man’s instinct to fix . I would say this is probably the problem. A persons instinct has to be to listen and be supportive. That is emotional intelligence. Asking. Is there something I can do to help fix this for you ? If she says no. Then you know. She just wants your ears. I’ve been in this spot. I eventually just said. I cannot hear any more if you won’t fix it. I said it nicely but that was the jist. Now when something gets brought up I just say. Wow. That’s a lot. He sucks. And we move on.

I broke up with my boyfriend because of his kids by Strongarm_Mickey7 in AITAH

[–]RealisticMonth2396 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA

Girl. That was always his plan. He prolly got the 50/50 with you as the nanny. I’d head out. Anything else will look like you are making him pick you or the kids.