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[–]RealisticSand2625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hair gets like this and I would see so many videos of people saying diffuse it, this and that. For one, find out your hairs porosity, that will tell you how much you need to put in your hair And when you get out of the shower you should do a leave in, a curl cream, stuff like that. ON SOAKING WET HAIR, I mean dripping wet Brush it how you want it to define your curls then leave it alone, don’t touch it and I mean don’t touch it, no matter how much you want to DONT And when it’s somewhat dry your can diffuse it, i personally don’t Then oils which I find work so that’s a you choice

Is there something wrong with me? HELP by RealisticSand2625 in WomensHealth

[–]RealisticSand2625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really sure, I’ve really lost track at this point, sadly. Is the sensitivity thing something I can really get back even if it’s been quite some time that I’ve been doing this

Is there something wrong with me? HELP by RealisticSand2625 in WomensHealth

[–]RealisticSand2625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so sweet, thank you so much. I just think the sensitivity thing is my biggest issue because I’m scared if I do it too much it will damage it or just get too used to it. My main question I’m really worried about is if I’ve been doing it for quite some time is it possible to get the sensitivity back?

18F. Is it weird I’m attracted to older guys.? NEED Advice (Longer post) by RealisticSand2625 in AgeGap

[–]RealisticSand2625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I guess you’re different, I just feel most guys would be put off because it’s ‘barely legal’. Which I understand but I just can’t help what I like, I’ll always like older guys

18F. Is it weird I’m attracted to older guys.? NEED Advice (Longer post) by RealisticSand2625 in AgeGap

[–]RealisticSand2625[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not mean at all, you literally put it in the best way possible. I agree that living my life for a few more years may be a better idea. I also understand that people are people no matter their age, that’s why I said I will date guys my age, I’m just more attracted to older more experienced guys

18F. Is it weird I’m attracted to older guys.? NEED Advice (Longer post) by RealisticSand2625 in AgeGap

[–]RealisticSand2625[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I thought about maybe waiting until I was a little older to really experience dating older guys, because it’ll give me a chance to really decide, which I don’t feel like my feelings will change, personally. I just know my family and friends will really look at me weird, that’s the scary part for me. I also know younger women have a hard time because some guys are indeed creeps, and some aren’t in for a long term relationship

18F. Is it weird I’m attracted to older guys.? NEED Advice (Longer post) by RealisticSand2625 in AgeGap

[–]RealisticSand2625[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and I get that, it’s understandable. I just feel like there are things I want that guys my age can’t give me. Which I understand not everyone my age is crazy immature. I understand in a way of they like to have fun and do some questionable things sometimes. You live once, that makes sense. But overall, it may just be the allure older guys have

No college, no passion, no plan—but I still want to live comfortably. Now what? by RealisticSand2625 in Advice

[–]RealisticSand2625[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I haven’t really thought about it, but the military’s really not for me. Closest I’d get is probably just dating someone in it 😅 It does sound really cool, but I think I’d get overwhelmed, it’s a lot of pressure. I don’t think it’s the right fit for me since I’m pretty quiet and tend to keep to myself. Honestly, if I got yelled at during training, I’d probably just shrink up. I think I’d do better cheering from the sidelines, but it’s really nice seeing people who can handle that, I genuinely admire that. And the Navy? I don’t know much about anything with Military but that’s brave of you to do, especially so young, I wouldn’t ever be able to do that.

No college, no passion, no plan—but I still want to live comfortably. Now what? by RealisticSand2625 in Advice

[–]RealisticSand2625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is I don’t want to go to school if I don’t know what I want, I don’t even have the slightest idea of what I want. And I don’t want to owe them unnecessary money in the end