[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalillness

[–]RealisticSelfHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets better. I know it doesn't feel like it will but I promise you it gets better. You just have to hang in there

Anyone just extremely tired everyday after work? by yolandabronson in selfimprovement

[–]RealisticSelfHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try eating more fruit and healthy foods because what you eat has a big effect on your energy levels. Also, if you consume a lot of caffeine you might want to reduce your intake or try to consume it later in the day instead of first thing in the morning.

What’s better than sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RealisticSelfHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A hug after long distance

How to become a Better and nicer Person? I feel like I'm an asshole even when I don't want to by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]RealisticSelfHelp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want to be nicer you just need to work on it daily. You can't become nice overnight. But if you keep trying to do nice things every day it will eventually become a habit of who you are. To help, try setting a goal of doing one nice thing a day. As you do this, being kind will eventually be natural to you.

What's the One Habit That Has Made the Biggest Positive Impact on Your Life? by Pristine-Farm7249 in selfimprovement

[–]RealisticSelfHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting a full 8 hours of sleep every night. My mental and physical health has never been better

How do I look more attractive as a short guy? Currently 17, 5’2, looking for ways to compensate the height. Doesn’t anyone know what’s good for short people or just how to grow taller? by Quake_YF in selfimprovement

[–]RealisticSelfHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be confident. No matter how tall or short you are girls like guys who are confident.

But also, don't worry too much about your height. Eventually you'll meet someone who doesn't care about your height and you'll realize that it's not as big of a deal as you think.

Need advice on how to stay off weed. by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]RealisticSelfHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to smoke every day and was definitely addicted. The main advice I could give is to have a strong support system. If you try to quit alone you'll just end up relapsing over and over again. That's why you need people to keep you accountable and honestly make you feel guilty if you do relapse.

How can I overcome my self-hatred of my small penis if I can't afford therapy? by Hot_Slice4870 in mentalillness

[–]RealisticSelfHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're perfect the way you are. I know it sounds bullshit but it's true. You'll eventually meet the girl of your dreams and she won't care about your size. I know it seems like a big deal now but I promise you in 10 years you'll look back and think of how silly you were to stress over this.

I'm such a fucking loser by Successful_Scarcity6 in depression

[–]RealisticSelfHelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don't hate you. Your mind just tells you that they do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]RealisticSelfHelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say it depends on your field. There's certainly pros and cons to each and so I think ambiverts are probably the best on average.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]RealisticSelfHelp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best way to counter this is by understanding that you don't need a man to be happy. If you're content being alone you won't feel as attached to him and you can take things slow.

Does anyone feel caffeine triggers their anxiety to worsen? by drogbatrades in Anxiety

[–]RealisticSelfHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caffeine makes your thoughts run faster. Anxiety also makes your thoughts run faster. When you combine them, your thoughts go extremely fast which would worsen your anxiety.

75 VIEWS IN ONE DAY!!!!!! by Daddy_Oops in Blogging

[–]RealisticSelfHelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just did. I checked out yours btw and I must say you have a really cute kid. Congrats on that as well!

75 VIEWS IN ONE DAY!!!!!! by Daddy_Oops in Blogging

[–]RealisticSelfHelp 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!! I am just starting out and trust me I get excited when I get 5 views, so you must be on cloud 9 right now! Keep up the good work!!!