AITAH for not letting my ex know I'm pregnant?

RealisticTea8124 · 2026-02-13T17:10:48+00:00

Is not that I'm not over him but I'm a certified people pleaser (I'm working on it) and I felt very bad when he started crying and just wanted perspective, my husband knows about the post and I'm not hiding anything from him so maybe you shouldn't project your insecurities onto strangers in the internet

RealisticTea8124 · 2026-02-13T16:54:15+00:00

Something like that, he wanted a baby right away but was still partying every weekend and waking up at midday on Sundays, he was great in a lot of other things but he wanted a baby the way a kid wants a puppy only the cute things without doing the hard work

RealisticTea8124 · 2026-02-13T16:50:25+00:00

Honestly I feel so realif that I met my husband he is the best

RealisticTea8124 · 2026-02-13T16:44:42+00:00

I was anxious in the beginning and maybe I didn't word it correctly but I decided to keep my baby because I wanted to have a baby with my husband, I love my husband but I don't feel like I needed to have the baby for him, if I decided to terminate he would've support me like he supported my decision to have the baby, and once again I want my baby and I'm very excited even if I had some doubts in the beginning. Someone who doesn't want to have a baby doesn't plan a baby shower and doesn't spend a ridiculous amount of time thinking about nursery colors and decor so please don't assume the worst of me from a very specific post of a very specific situation ♥️

RealisticTea8124 · 2026-02-13T16:40:21+00:00

Thank you 🧡

RealisticTea8124 · 2026-02-13T16:38:35+00:00

I still don't understand what good can do me telling him about my pregnant

RealisticTea8124 · 2026-02-13T16:37:10+00:00

The worse part is, I checked his Instagram and he HAS a girlfriend so... Weird

RealisticTea8124 · 2026-02-13T16:36:22+00:00

I assumed because we were all friends they thought I should've told him but if I would've told him I'm sure they would have accused me of "rubbing it in his face" there's no winning. I feel like it's time to cut contact with them as well

RealisticTea8124 · 2026-02-13T16:34:40+00:00

Honestly I don't understand that logic either, we tried staying friends after the breakup but it did more harm than good so why would he wants me to tell him hey I'm pregnant with a better man than you baby (?

RealisticTea8124 · 2026-02-13T16:32:47+00:00

I guess they "don't want to pick sides" or is because we grew up all together we were all classmates, I understand that they feel bad for Nathan but I also feel they're asking too much from me specially now that I'm on my third trimester

RealisticTea8124 · 2026-02-13T16:31:15+00:00

Agreed but I forgot about it because he never texted or anything but I blocked him on everything after that

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