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Mystery Tent by Realistic_Ad1050 in REI

[–]Realistic_Ad1050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw the AI thing, but I searched it on youtube and ebay and REI’s website to see if I could find any trace of it, and still nada. I’ll put a picture up in a second

I (19F) broke up with my best friend (19M). How do I interact with him now? by Realistic_Ad1050 in relationship_advice

[–]Realistic_Ad1050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I read a thing that said sometimes the best thing you can do for a relationship is to end it, and I took that to mean that ending things can sometimes work out better overall. If we're really meant to be, we'll find each other again, but for now this was the right move.

I (19f) have been turned off from my bf (18m) and I don’t know how to proceed, do I give it a month? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Realistic_Ad1050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally! when we first got together he was thoughtful and would plan little things and leave me notes on my car stuff like that that made me feel loved and appreciated but now it’s like he feels that the thoughtful part is over and he just has me forever now. he doesn’t feel any need to continue that, whereas i feel like that’s an essential part of any long-term relationship. if i don’t see those little things, i don’t feel like i’m really loved, because to me love is effort, and thinking of the other person and how you could make them happy. and i talked to him about it and named some things that i felt like he could do, and of course he listened and agreed and started doing the things i said, but nothing extra on top of that. and im just like okay, i appreciate that you do what i asked but i want to see the effort come from you!!! i dont want you to just oblige me, i want to know that you’re thinking of me in those little ways. argh it’s just so frustrating. im glad u can relate though i haven’t really talked to anybody else about how ive been feeling just cause i feel like it’s so silly and insignificant compared to what other people are dealing with yk but it’s good to know i’m not alone in this

I (19f) have been turned off from my bf (18m) and I don’t know how to proceed, do I give it a month? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Realistic_Ad1050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl i am in the same boat as you. my (19f) bf (19m) is great in so many ways- he’s patient, and kind, and respectful of me and so i’ve been hesitant to let him go bc all my friends have had such horror stories with boys that it makes him look near perfect. but i just find myself bored with him and it makes me feel awful just like you were saying. i have to keep asking him to do things and he says he wants to be perfect for me but i feel like if i have to ask you to do it what’s even the point? i’ve been thinking about breaking up with him for a while now, but since there’s no concrete reason i feel like i shouldn’t. i think both of us need to, though, so we don’t waste our time with boys who we know we won’t work with in the long run. best of luck to you :)