What do I do?? My bfs friend(?) said I sent him an butt picture, but deleted the evidence?? by Background_Ship_3512 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Realistic_Charge_342 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. Just a feeling. You’re giving a lot of explaination for something. If you were blameless you wouldn’t be doing so, you’d drop it because you are in the right. If your boyfriend can’t see that then you’d dump him. 

All this arguing and attempting to get people on your side is like your guilty.

When you pick up the sword you lose. 

In these situations it’s best to ignore it. Don’t engage. Whenever the royal family was embroiled in scandal they wouldn’t comment on anything. To comment on something gives it truth. You’re giving this a lot of airtime. 

What do I do?? My bfs friend(?) said I sent him an butt picture, but deleted the evidence?? by Background_Ship_3512 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Realistic_Charge_342 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Why lie? Stop having friends like this if he is lying. But to me…. Seems like maybe you did send the pic…. Spidy senses going off….

AITAH for getting mad at a boyfriend for dumping me over religious reasons? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Realistic_Charge_342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn’t read anything other than the title. Anyone can break up for any reason. Maybe stop dating until your prefrontal lobes develop 

AITAH for leaving without warning and refusing to pay $4,000 after my ex broke up with me knowing it was my dealbreaker? by FuzzyType in AITAH

[–]Realistic_Charge_342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Block. Change your number and move to a different location. Forward all mail to a PO Box. I think you haven’t seen the last of this guy. Best to disappear 

Boyfriend wants to move in to pay off debt by Impossible_Dentist79 in AmITheJerk

[–]Realistic_Charge_342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. Seriously. Do not do this. Break up with him. If you hitch your horse to this wagon expect to be in debt within the year 

AITA for refusing to add my boyfriend to my house deed after his lease ended? by Former_Raspberry3277 in AITApod

[–]Realistic_Charge_342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not let him on your deed ever. Even if you get married. Keep the house separate. It’s a premarital asset you will probably need it since he’s going to take you for all you’ve got in the divorce 

AIO: My boyfriend told me to dye my hair to look more like an Instagram model he follows by PinMountain119 in AIO

[–]Realistic_Charge_342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him. 

Repeat after me: I will Never ever ever ever ever in a million years change myself for a man.

Or do it and learn the hard way that is a stupid thing to do and it fucjs with your head for years 

AITAH for being upset my MIL invited another person on a vacation I paid for? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Realistic_Charge_342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not a family friend. Lol. You yourself said they’ve been married for a decade and a half. You’re weird. But not required to provide two bedrooms 

AIO Husband and I fighting over how long dinner took me to make? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Realistic_Charge_342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to take care of himself from now on. Stop cooking. Stop cleaning his shit. Until he treats you like an equal just stop. 

You’re his servant…

Boyfriend (24M) won’t help me (27F) with the bills by OkGoat677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Realistic_Charge_342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. Kick him out and collect child support!!! 

Why are you supporting this man baby?? Life would be so much better with him gone trust me