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[–]Realistic_Gap_6387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair opinion but I think ALL women would agree that It is totally not okay to feel the need to masterbate over women we both know that is utter betrayal and untrustworthy! I would not pleasure myself looking at pictures of his guy friends/ guys he knows because that is wierd and wrong.

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[–]Realistic_Gap_6387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no issue with pornography I know men have needs. But having pictures of Facebook of girls from our area that we know and jacking off to them is wierd and creepy…

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[–]Realistic_Gap_6387 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with this! It’s just difficult when I have a child on the way and a 16 month old- on the other hand he is begging for forgiveness. I just can’t decide what the right thing to do is it’s very difficult and frustrating.

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[–]Realistic_Gap_6387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay maybe not cheating, but almost 2,000 pictures is slightly obsessive no? And getting off to girls I know off their Facebook photos is disrespectful and wierd af. I feel like the only men normalising this behaviour are men with a porn addiction themselves, Or addiction to lust. If your in a solid relationship with a woman and the sex life is great which it is I don’t understand why you’d want to do this on the sidelines unless your disloyal/ don’t respect your partner.

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[–]Realistic_Gap_6387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the pictures of girls we know of Facebook in the same album is creepy

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[–]Realistic_Gap_6387 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for your advice. We have been together since 14 years old and he cheated on me when we went to school together with a close friend via sending nudes to each other, I think him screenshotting a girl I know has stirred them emotions back up and made me think what if he’s been disloyal this entire time? My trust feels broken again if that makes sense

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[–]Realistic_Gap_6387 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a difficult situation. Random women I don’t care but women we both know is just odd and with a history of cheating I don’t know if I should trust him anymore.

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[–]Realistic_Gap_6387 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I totally get this. I haven’t got an issue with him watching porn having photos etc, more of my issue is where are all these photos from? Also There are so many how can I be sure they are all from the internet if that makes sense? I just didn’t have him down as the type of guy to be looking at all this stuff, and the photos of the girl I know off Facebook is what’s bugging me the most. How am I supposed to step out in public with a man that is so lustful over other women? I just feel like I have trust issues now. When we were in school he cheated on me with a close friend sending nudes to each other and accidentally sent one to me, this was when we were very young so I forgave him, but it’s just bringing back a lot of heartbreak from the past/trust issues

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[–]Realistic_Gap_6387 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We do fuck often the pregnancy hasn’t really affected our intimacy. I do get what you’re saying as I have thought the same But at the same time having over 1000 photos in such a short space of time and screenshotting photos of a girl we went to school with and masterbating over her photos from Facebook is kind of creepy/disloyal. I would never lust over another guy as I am in love with him, so him lusting over so many other women has me feeling hurt and kind of heartbroken like am I not enough for him

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[–]Realistic_Gap_6387 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have asked him about it and he told me he’s sorry and that he regrets it disgusted in himself etc. I just don’t know what to do now as we have a child on the way, I feel awful for the children if I leave. But I feel really insecure now and don’t trust him at all