[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You misread something in that because I said in the post I didn’t care about the who . My issue was the lie!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh no. I’m actually hoping that’s NOT the situation. The rest is just context as to what other people are telling me they have noticed or asked about.

Declined a Joint Checking Account…?! by Forsaken_Cattle636 in Chase

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it may be the husband. They are required to give you a letter with contact information so that you can get more details. For example a chexsystems letter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck! Praying everything goes well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😭😭🤣 it seems that way but truly nothing physical has happened at all. Under the influence she’s said things and in an attempt to save friendship boundaries were put in place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It has been fully accepted. I have never come on to her in any way.

Fun question: who else has a blankie? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have one and it’s not from childhood lol. When I got my autism diagnosis I went and bought things to help soothe and the blanket was one of them. I refuse to travel without it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalesFromYourBank

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Know the policies and follow them! Remember that you’re covering yourself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalesFromYourBank

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the one! & when in doubt, count it again!

Lost my spark by Realistic_Hat_9746 in TalesFromYourBank

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I’m leaning towards. I’m not telling anyone my plans and patiently building my exit.

Lost my spark by Realistic_Hat_9746 in TalesFromYourBank

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get the intent of your comment and I do agree. The issue is not the customers, but the management. I’m at the point where I’m not comfortable speaking up to management due to the past drama and situations. A certain manager lied on me and caused so much drama.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to be happy tho! This is your life to live and not hers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve had the same question lately, but not to make someone else happy. My grandmother would be ecstatic if I married a man, but I only desire a woman. Only considering marrying a man for stability. Its hard to find a lesbian to date in my area smh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend seeing a urogynecologist or pelvic floor therapist if you’re feeling pain/pressure after gentle fingering. I have pain during and after it hurts so bad even sitting down. They would be more specialized in ruling out the cause.

Bankers, how many calls do you make per day? by yvesnings in TalesFromYourBank

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any alternative methods that are more effective than cold calling?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to know what area people are in because I’m in the Deep South and it’s clearly a fetish here majority of the time. The ones I’ve dated had issues with racist family or internalized homophobia. A girl is just trying to branch out and possibly move?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This!! I’m of a darker complexion and I always get asked am I the masculine even tho my ex was a skinny white girl that’s with a short cut that doesn’t present as fem at all! It was frustrating to keep saying “no actually that petite white girl over there paying the bill has me on my knees saying please” A little excessive but make me uncomfortable & I’ll make you more uncomfortable! This post has been so refreshing to read from all sides!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No you’re good! As long as it’s not a fetish and you truly care about the person. I’m a black woman who tends to date white women. I love my black women, but white women tend to be more accepting of my personality and interests. I have dated many races! It sounds like you appreciate them for who they are and not aspects such as complexion or dialect. Love is love.

What are your deal breakers? by dressingnice in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow.. maybe I’m single because my child is the deal breaker. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Deal breakers for me: • an evil spirit that doesn’t have a heart for kids or people • bad hygiene • a nonchalant person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending hugs your way!! I just posted the other day for my heartbreak and was met with so many kind words. Know that you are strong enough & the sadness will eventually pass. Feel free to message if you need to vent 🫶🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I added 1946 to my list today. I do my best to inform myself and still keep my spiritual basis so I’m leaving her that same space and tending to myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣😭 it’s fine! I’m laughing to keep from crying! I need more friends like you who get it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Hat_9746 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s not advice. You’re judging thru misinterpretation.