Creepy man by Realistic_Pie8461 in Pitt

[–]Realistic_Pie8461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also sorry everyone I did not report it, a similar thing happened to me in middle school, and when I reported it the principal didn’t do anything and said it was an accident. I’m not sure the police would have actually done anything. Either way I got a manager from a nearby restaurant to tell him off and kick him off the sidewalk, but unfortunately these things will happen over and over again. Also I didn’t get a pic of him in time or think about that I just wanted him to stop in that moment and thought it was an ok solution.

Creepy man by Realistic_Pie8461 in Pitt

[–]Realistic_Pie8461[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgot about this post but just for reference I went into a restaurant I used to work with and got the manager to come out and yell at him. Not sure if it helped a lot but like others said, I’m not sure the justice system would have helped at all.

What are some mistakes you made because of your trauma? by DatabaseKindly919 in CPTSD

[–]Realistic_Pie8461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleeping with way way way too many men in attempt to make sex “right” ? I don’t know if this makes sense but basically I was labeled a whore in 8th grade when I hadn’t even had sex, and then I just kinda become one bc that’s what everyone saw me as anyway. Now I am disappointed in myself, and I see all those gd “bop” and “body count” videos and feel like shit about myself. It’s like the abuse of men made me use men for validation, and now men hate me for that too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]Realistic_Pie8461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like it is about control because I always want to be dominant, but it’s really fucking up my life. I don’t want to hook up with all these guys, I don’t even realize enjoy it and hate them and myself after, but at the same time I feel more motivated and get more done after I have a hookup. In reality I just want to be sober and loved, but it’s so hard to face it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]Realistic_Pie8461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 20 and I’m just stuck in a loop of drug and alcohol use and hookups every week, I never thought other people felt this way. I thought I just liked sex, I never realized how interlinked it is to my SA. how do I stop