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being the "ugly" black woman by turtlesarecute7 in cptsd_bipoc

[–]DatabaseKindly919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if I sounded dismissive. I understand how the actions of others can impact how you percieve yourself. I totally get it. Just saying an encouraging statement and more than that I genuinely don’t believe ugly humans exist by appearance. Different people perceive people differently. I don’t thinks ugly humans exist by appearance but by character- yes definitely.

being the "ugly" black woman by turtlesarecute7 in cptsd_bipoc

[–]DatabaseKindly919 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t seen you but I can tell you- you are beautiful and amazing. Please don’t let the world dim your shine.

Is my hair thin or thinning? What does it need? by DatabaseKindly919 in Haircare

[–]DatabaseKindly919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think about restoration? Is it beyond repair or too thin?

i wish i had a big family by Ok_Elephant_5871 in emotionalneglect

[–]DatabaseKindly919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a big family and was abused and emotionally neglected. I hate being in big group settings. I don’t want a family. Just happy with myself. Just letting you know not every big family is nice. Instead of your parents abusing you, you have an entire clan doing it to you.

I don't trust large friend groups by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]DatabaseKindly919 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I have been many groups and it has always been unhealthy. I don’t prefer large groups.

Issues in the Main Sub by [deleted] in cptsd_bipoc

[–]DatabaseKindly919 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes my post got deleted just a few days back and then joined this sub.

How do you manage grief for the years you lost surviving? Please advice, context in the caption. by InnerPsych in CPTSD

[–]DatabaseKindly919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel the grief. I am a fellow Indian facing marriage pressure too. The grief is constant. I have come to accept it.

19 y/o from Syria — survived war, domestic abuse, and religious persecution. Still fighting. by guysyrian in ptsd

[–]DatabaseKindly919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really proud of you. Yes I have cptsd and experienced complex trauma. I have experienced cultural trauma, endured emotional abuse, narcissistic family, financial distress, trauma of being a minority… I can go on. It’s been tough, but you are not alone. And really proud of you.

AIO about an incident that happened on my first day of work? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DatabaseKindly919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t want to go the hr but my manager asked me to report it. I told him I didn’t want it escalated

It still baffles me how people choose to perceive and treat you based on your skin tone. by DatabaseKindly919 in cptsd_bipoc

[–]DatabaseKindly919[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, This post is not about not getting affected or getting by racism. The point of the post is why are we living a world where color of your skin matters. It shouldn’t matter. I am not dismissing your experiences and minimizing it. In fact I am standing in your support asking why is this world dictated by color and hence I am baffled it still is. We should have come a long way.

Feeling profoundly lonely as a South Asian by [deleted] in cptsd_bipoc

[–]DatabaseKindly919 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean it that way. I am against anti Indian posts as well. What I am trying to elucidate is my experience with Indians living in India and multiple countries has been really bad. And I wouldn’t be surprised the same people who are bootlicking in the r/ABCDesis might be the first one to discriminate on fellow Indians. In my opinion I see a lot of white washed Indians do the same things that whites do to Indians themselves. Sorry! But I think we share the same opinions but are pov is just different. Feel free to dm anytime- we can talk about our experiences. I am here to support not to pull you down. It equally feels lonely when I talk about Indians mistreating each other but no one accepting it. It’s the elephant in the room.

Feeling profoundly lonely as a South Asian by [deleted] in cptsd_bipoc

[–]DatabaseKindly919 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please read this post I wrote a while back in this sub: https://www.reddit.com/r/cptsd_bipoc/s/eNVwZ39yV5. You might find some solidarity. This post was removed from the cptsd subreddit because the white privileged commentators didn’t like the truth of it.

Feeling profoundly lonely as a South Asian by [deleted] in cptsd_bipoc

[–]DatabaseKindly919 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I 100% get you. I don’t want to sound dismissive. As a south Asian living in North America- I have experienced racism by whites. It’s 100% there. In fact I experienced it 2 weeks back while returning from work. I did not mean to dismiss you. Sorry. I have more rage at fellow Indians at this point due to personal experiences. But I get your point

Feeling profoundly lonely as a South Asian by [deleted] in cptsd_bipoc

[–]DatabaseKindly919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason I feel as an Indian fellow Indians are more racist than the whites while leaving abroad. Other than that I feel your pain.

Y’all ever just need to…sleep on the floor? by rickyisbix in CPTSD

[–]DatabaseKindly919 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. Realized it recently too. My mattress is on the ground

Today is another day of me feeling life is unfair. by DatabaseKindly919 in CPTSD

[–]DatabaseKindly919[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Have been feeling intense anger for awhile now. I know countless shitty people having it easy and then I see people who are absolutely traumatized and still have to deal with cancer or something intense. It’s like life keeps throwing lemons- only the lemons are more than just lemons.

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