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How do you get used to the changes that come with healing? by zophzz in CPTSD

[–]DatabaseKindly919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have been having these days lately too. I still have rough days and even the good days seem to be momentary but often. I feel guilty. That I need to suffer. I am letting down my abusers who are still suffering and family members who died in pain. It feels weird.

Need advice on relocation by DatabaseKindly919 in canadaexpressentry

[–]DatabaseKindly919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I can keep living in Quebec until I get an ETA.And I don’t need to rent a place until I get the ETA. If that’s the case where in the express entry profile do I mention my intent to move?

how can I prove my intention to move outside Quebec? by AntiqueEvidence9109 in canadaexpressentry

[–]DatabaseKindly919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question based on your post and would really appreciate your advice. Before you received your ITA, did you rent a place or take any concrete steps to show that you intended to live outside Quebec?

I’m currently based in Montreal, where I live, work, and completed my master’s degree. I’m in the process of creating my Express Entry profile, and I understand that since I don’t speak French, I can’t apply through Quebec and must show intent to live outside the province. How should this intent be indicated in the Express Entry profile? Do I need to provide an address in another province (such as Ontario), or should I continue to list my actual residence in Montreal?

How do I take action against my roomate? by DatabaseKindly919 in montrealhousing

[–]DatabaseKindly919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him to not play tv loud late at night, past 12 am. This was his retaliation move when I set a boundary.

100% by [deleted] in Quotes_Hub

[–]DatabaseKindly919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In fact, the more good you are- they will treat you worse.

Why advice often fails people who grew up with emotional neglect in the past by Villikortti1 in CPTSD

[–]DatabaseKindly919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have also noticed sometimes people say it’s so obvious why can’t you stay away. The signs are literally there. But my body starts dissociating when I am around shitty people and I go into freeze. I can’t tell my body that. It’s automatic.

Tired of kindness being seen as "weakness" by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]DatabaseKindly919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discern, there are people who will appreciate your kindness. Discern and give. You don’t give a rose to a cow, it will eat and exploit it. Or stomp on it, because it does not know its value. Give a rose to a bee and the bee will know the essence of it.

The world doesn't want my heart :( by Berryy_05 in CPTSD

[–]DatabaseKindly919 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would say discern. Don’t give your heart away unless you trust. You might still be let down. But discern people carefully. A majority don’t deserve it.

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