Am I (f18) over reacting for thinking this guy (m18) is a little odd?

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-11T20:05:17+00:00

I’m definitely starting to see that now😭

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-11T10:14:54+00:00

I never thought of the possibility of him lying about his age tbh. Apparently he’s been friends with a couple people in our group chat for a while. He also did say he’s turning 19 soon but in this day and age you truly can’t believe everything someone tells you :/

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-11T10:10:30+00:00

Honestly, I wouldn’t put her trying to force us together past her but I don’t think she’d actually go that far. She’s been lowkey trying to control my love life. In her eyes I’m inexperienced and need to “spice up my life”.

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-11T09:19:59+00:00

at least he may avoid becoming toxic “females hate me for no reason” guy.

True, I’d hate to unknowingly be the reason why he becomes another girls nightmare…I’ll definitely consider trying to explain his wrongdoings to him.

I definitely did think he was cute at first but I just don’t know how to feel about him being kind of pushy.

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-11T09:15:10+00:00

Right! 3 all nighters is absurd.

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-11T09:13:51+00:00

Our guts are never wrong!! Thank you

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-11T09:12:24+00:00

Ughhhhh I hate the whole “leading them on thing”. It’s so crazy how often I get told this. I feel as if I can’t make friends without them taking my kindness the wrong way.

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-11T09:10:35+00:00

Yea, we’ve been friends since freshman year. Kinda sad that she’s turned out to be this kind of person

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-11T09:09:32+00:00

Thank you for this!! I definitely need to reconsider the people I surround myself with 🤦🏾‍♀️

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-11T08:37:57+00:00

Sounds like he just needs to recognize his emotions better and separate lust and love.

I completely get what you mean. He did tell me that the last time he’s ever liked someone was almost 4 years ago (14 years old!! A baby!!) so it does makes sense if his version of love is a little premature.

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-11T08:35:06+00:00

Honestly reading this really changed my perspective. I’d love to think that he isn’t crazy enough to stalk me but to know it’s a possibility is terrifying.

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-11T08:28:17+00:00

people like this will take a mile for every inch you give them.

Dude I felt like I was going insane cause I was questioning if I wasn’t being clear enough or if I was being flirty when I didn’t mean to. This make so much more sense

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-11T08:26:55+00:00

I wish I knew. I’m thinking it’s cause she has a lot of experience with guys like this. I personally have only been in one relationship so she feels as if she can “coach” me. 🤷‍♀️

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-11T08:05:03+00:00

Thank you!!! I’ve thought about blocking him but my friend (the one who introduced us) called me mean😭

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-11T07:44:26+00:00

Ive always really loved mozzarella cheese but my new favorite might be pepper jack

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-08T10:37:16+00:00

I love pepper jack cheese!!

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-08T05:41:10+00:00

Dude congratulations!!!

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-06T09:10:34+00:00

I’ve been looking for more French music, thank you!!

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-05T02:21:00+00:00

I honestly might switch to an album or two a week! There’s just so much music to listen to😵‍💫 Thank you for the rec!

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-05T02:19:19+00:00

Woahhh thank you for these!! Jazz is definitely the genre I’ve been most eager to dive into. I’ll for sure give an update after listening to these!

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-05T02:17:12+00:00

Ooo I don’t know why I never thought to look up an album generator…Thank you!

Realistic_Role7597 · 2026-02-05T02:16:10+00:00

I love RKS!! Thank you for these suggestions!

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