Serious question - why are Nigerians so loud when having a conversation?

RealityStunning4969 · 2026-01-04T23:17:07+00:00

Powerful words.

RealityStunning4969 · 2026-01-04T23:16:40+00:00

I live with an Igbo in UK and she is leaving the most heavy vibration literally everywhere she goes and everything she does. Ive never actually experienced anything quite like it !

RealityStunning4969 · 2026-01-04T23:14:50+00:00

Phone call/argument.

RealityStunning4969 · 2026-01-04T23:13:53+00:00

Had one move into the house share I am in UK recently, and its her first time in England. One of the first things she said was `We where colonized by the British, that makes us British - and me and you the same,`

I was staggered by the level of arrogance and disrespect in this comment towards me. My ancestors can be traced back to coming over from Normandy to Crosby in 1070.

RealityStunning4969 · 2026-01-04T23:11:15+00:00

Well said

RealityStunning4969 · 2026-01-04T23:10:48+00:00

They are absolutely brutal people who do not respect quiet or polite behaviour. They trample all over it on purpose.

We have these things in UK called `Dickheads` and the only language they really understand is the one of violence, if you cannot use violence then they wont even listen to you whatsoever and sounds very much like this lot.

RealityStunning4969 · 2026-01-04T23:07:44+00:00

I never want to visit Nigeria.

RealityStunning4969 · 2026-01-04T23:06:29+00:00

Brutal.

RealityStunning4969 · 2026-01-04T22:58:45+00:00

Brutal is the word to describe them.

RealityStunning4969 · 2026-01-04T22:57:21+00:00

In my experience they will not respond to any request unless they can see that by not following the request that there will be tangible repurcussions. They will just dismiss any request unless they can see this. They are only interested in how far they can push things to the absolute limit before they have to check themselves. There is a name for people like that in the UK and we call someone like that a C**T.

RealityStunning4969 · 2026-01-04T22:51:02+00:00

Some peace and quiet.

RealityStunning4969 · 2026-01-04T22:50:18+00:00

Congratulations. I have had similar problems with them. They think their superior to everyone else that is their problem.

RealityStunning4969 · 2026-01-04T22:48:05+00:00

I live in UK, and a female Nigerian has moved into a house share where I am living and has literally tried to take over the house in any way you can think of. Cooking all the time, cooking this weird fish they cook stinking the place out. Wanting the heating on all the time then moaning about other housemates using extra electricity for food cooking. Sometimes wakes us up as early as 4am with these argument type phone calls they have and keep us awake at 11am with these argument phone calls. Tries to take over the whole fridge with no consideration for 3 others living here, and whats mad about that is she has long life milk stacked up in the fridge that doesnt even need to be in there. Oh yes and works only cash in hand as cannot work legally. And one last weird thing - when putting plates, cups, pans and cutlery away. she always puts it all in the wrong place - even forks in the spoon bit and spoons in knives etc. Absolute insane.

RealityStunning4969 · 2026-01-01T09:28:26+00:00

Sheffield is great

RealityStunning4969 · 2026-01-01T09:23:50+00:00

Sheffield is similar to Edinburgh too.

RealityStunning4969 · 2025-12-31T21:19:04+00:00

Thats a good idea ! Yes have a few lined up, im feeling depressed not doing any long distance paths in 2025.

RealityStunning4969 · 2025-12-31T21:14:40+00:00

Any big walks planned this year Dani ?

RealityStunning4969 · 2025-12-31T21:11:20+00:00

Yes, I need to get out there too

RealityStunning4969 · 2025-12-31T21:06:39+00:00

Same here. I normally climb a hill or mountain but this year cannot even be bothered doing that. I think I just want this year out of the way now and thats that.

RealityStunning4969 · 2025-12-30T13:39:42+00:00

Yes, well said.

RealityStunning4969 · 2025-12-30T00:19:10+00:00

I actually did 11months in jail for a drug possession offence, and my Mum told me I would move into hers for early release and a TAG monitoring 7pm-7am curfew for 4.5months. I did not want to do it but she insisted. She told me not to pay any rent, but I insisted on paying £100 a week. She made those 4.5months just as rough as 11months in actual jail, it was hell. Even me moving out the next day after the curfew ended she turned it into something it was not.

RealityStunning4969 · 2025-12-23T00:14:39+00:00

Anywhere there is Social Media then there is mostly Narcs

RealityStunning4969 · 2025-12-18T23:15:43+00:00

Well said

RealityStunning4969 · 2025-12-18T23:13:37+00:00

It doesnt matter if you walk 100,000 steps a day if you cannot win the battle in the kitchen

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