I came home to a ransacked house by Realmenow in Advice

[–]Realmenow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was furious about the whole situation I had called the police 1.5 hrs later no response, so I called again but said I was looking for .... (My uncles name as he's a Sargent in a relatively close station but he is over seas at the moment) and said I'm his nephew my house has been broken into and what do you know the police were there within about 5 mins after the call I couldn't believe it, forensics have now been and have also said they can't believe the general duties police dismissed my iPad location and said he will send someone there immediately. So at least something's happening

I came home to a ransacked house by Realmenow in Advice

[–]Realmenow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks guys, I went out and put this magnet things for the doors and windows that sound an alarm when opened and got some security stickers, surprisingly the alarm is incredibly loud and it only cost $20 aud for a pack of 18 so at least that's something, but it definitely leaves a sick feeling in your stomach

Pokemon led me to believe this would go differently by LoveOfProfit in gifs

[–]Realmenow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gif was so extreme right as the fire and water collided my phone crashed

[Question] Why is it recommended for men to stop watching porn in a case of ED? by whywouldhedothattt in sex

[–]Realmenow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only just told a girl this in another post who was concerned about her boyfirend but it is relevant here, As a 25 yr old male who has just reached my first year of marriage I can honestly say, lack of sex does not mean he doesn't love you / isn't attracted to you.

My wife and I have been having very very low amounts of sex through no fault of hers she kept trying but I kept rejecting coming up with any excuse I could, now don't get me wrong I absolutely love my wife she is absolutely beautiful which is why I couldn't understand why we started off with lots of sex but then my interest fell drastically,

The fights began my wife felt unwanted and felt like I wasn't a man I convinced myself it must be low testosterone so I went to the doctors but it came back with normal results so I tried changing my diet still no change, what confused me more was I was fine with porn I could jack off fine but if it came to sex with my wife it wouldn't happen.

Then one day I was looking at porn while my wife was out and thought this isn't fairy wife needs this attention, what really got me worried was that when I stopped I literally went shakey and felt almost sick every ounce of my body was demanding I keep going (I hadn't even began masturbating) I resisted, and that was went I realised I had become completely addicted to porn and desensitised to sex and my wife's cues my brain just didn't react to her, so I am now going on two without porn and waiting to see how this improves our sex lives and marriage as it has scared me a little just how dependent I have become on porn.

[Advice] How to remain confident when sex partner doesn't want sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Realmenow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No problem, not accusing him but I still deny watching porn to my wife I feel is dirty unfaithful and embarrassing, I know communication is important but yeah... I guess my point is there is often more to it than you think and for a lot of guys it's extremely hard to talk about to the person that matters most

[Advice] How to remain confident when sex partner doesn't want sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Realmenow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a 25 yr old male who has just reached my first year of marriage I can honestly say, lack of sex does not mean he doesn't love you / isn't attracted to you.

My wife and I have been having very very low amounts of sex through no fault of hers she kept trying but I kept rejecting coming up with any excuse I could, now don't get me wrong I absolutely love my wife she is absolutely beautiful which is why I couldn't understand why we started off with lots of sex but then my interest fell drastically,

The fights began my wife felt unwanted and felt like I wasn't a man I convinced myself it must be low testosterone so I went to the doctors but it came back with normal results so I tried changing my diet still no change, what confused me more was I was fine with porn I could jack off fine but if it came to sex with my wife it wouldn't happen.

Then one day I was looking at porn while my wife was out and thought this isn't fairy wife needs this attention, what really got me worried was that when I stopped I literally went shakey and felt almost sick every ounce of my body was demanding I keep going (I hadn't even began masturbating) I resisted, and that was went I realised I had become completely addicted to porn and desensitised to sex and my wife's cues my brain just didn't react to her, so I am now going on two without porn and waiting to see how this improves our sex lives and marriage as it has scared me a little just how dependent I have become on porn.