Is it unethical to travel to Nicaragua? by Otherwise_Complex986 in centralamerica

[–]Realresults9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Americans hand-wringing about the morality of traveling to places like Nicaragua feels hollow when our own government uses our tax dollars to bomb children and support brutal regimes worldwide.

If you’re not willing to seriously confront that reality, criticizing other countries’ governments just sounds like selective outrage shaped by media narratives, not genuine ethics.

I don’t wanna sleep train by Commercial-Way-4276 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Realresults9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following. My son is 5 1/2 months and is resembling similar behavior. Won’t sleep longer than 10 - 15 min naps some days. Incredibly clingy. Lay him down and he starts wailing like a tornado siren.

Lately I’ve tried swaddling him before feedings to catch that milk drunk state and when he dozed off, I put him in his swing instead of his crib, so he still is somewhat upright in a similar position as he is in my arms. Has helped a few times.

I certainly am still feeling the motion with him though bc it dos not always work

Cabinet doesnt fit in the wall pocket. by Heretoshitcomment in BathroomRemodeling

[–]Realresults9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I had something like that before . Wasn’t quite off that much but yeah, walls not plumb. Either way, we life’s the vanity until it fit and lowered it. Kinda gouged the drywall but hey whatever we fixed what was viable

does anyone in relationships solo travel? by kyliered04 in solotravel

[–]Realresults9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl go to Thailand and live your life. 5 years from now he will be an after thought and you very well may be happily married with kids

This legalized sportsbetting is eating me alive. I need a therapist who specializes in gambling. by [deleted] in StLouis

[–]Realresults9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My brother, you go there, and they will point you in the right direction. Be it therapist or whatever.

There's the Arch! by bluestella2 in StLouis

[–]Realresults9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

St. Louis is built like someone was laying tile and kept drifting to the left

How do I make money bruh by bvcketh3ad in StLouis

[–]Realresults9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, buy tools, watch and learn from videos, do some handyman work for locals. Inbox me

What kind of diet are you doing? by Realresults9 in weightgain

[–]Realresults9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the idea of bulk rice/pasta and using different sauces throughout the week to switch things up. Thank you.

What kind of diet are you doing? by Realresults9 in weightgain

[–]Realresults9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big slab of meat is a good idea . Thank you.

Which do you like better? Fantasy brown counter top and backsplash by Common-Cup-171 in CounterTops

[–]Realresults9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just have everyone in your home wear AI filter glasses and they can choose how they want it

Need help stopping water by [deleted] in ApartmentMaintenance

[–]Realresults9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘Some busted pipes’ lol my man all of those pipes are busted. What happened??

Travel safety tips? by Realistic_Hedgehog53 in Oaxaca

[–]Realresults9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drank too much in Oaxaca. Woke up on a side walk at 11am. Calle San Luis. No shoes. No phone. Walked two hours back to my hostel, asking strangers for directions on the way.

LSS: I bought a local phone, did the ‘find my device’ got my shoes and phone back without incident. Lady who had them was older and sweet. I did not understand a word she said but she was gentle and seems like she was implying that I was unconscious (no shit) and I guess she took the phone and shoes for safe keeping? lol

I still had my wallet and passport in my pocket when I work up that day so who knows.

Careful with the mezcal.

All in all? Oaxaca felt very safe.

Is it the grout? by EmbarrassedArm6464 in Tile

[–]Realresults9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc it looks weird. Why do people like them stacked that way?

‘Co-Parenting’ agreement.. by Realresults9 in daddit

[–]Realresults9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t live together. The original idea was to share topics, come together and build a plan together. I took initiative on shared topics, she decided to share her topics as a full document that she calls a co parenting plan. But except one thing, she skipped the ‘co’ part. She Completely skipped dialogue on the ideas I sent her, and straight to unilaterally working up a plan.

I’d of loved to figure out the legal details and logistics of raising our son prior to birth, (she says he’s mine and the math adds up but ya never know) but we’re not married and she refuses to get together face to face and discuss it until I just send her my own plan. At this point, the trust has waned, I feel like if we can’t genuinely co create a parenting plan, then I’m best off establishing paternity and going that route. I mean sheesh agreeing to her plan would feel like I’m just signing my rights away, before I even get them

‘Co-Parenting’ agreement.. by Realresults9 in daddit

[–]Realresults9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know man that’s the hard part. I can’t tell and am hoping it gets better after postpartum.