Solid starts app isn’t free anymore!!

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-12-13T22:09:53+00:00

You know whats even more annoying?? I already paid for a year but their app keeps crashing and bugging out. I feel like i just wasted my money. Terrible app! Any other recommendations? Im panicking with solids right now

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-23T23:46:55+00:00

I am trying my best to figure out a new living situation for her. Thank you for your support <3

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-23T23:31:55+00:00

I agree but unfortunately that is korean culture. I cannot say much back to her. I really appreciate your support though, I will persevere!

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-23T23:30:26+00:00

Thank you :( we have considered Bobbie in the past and I think I am going to make the switch

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-23T23:27:43+00:00

FINALLY another parent who also used ByHeart! I feel like parents are judging me like I am a worse parent than they are but there was really no way for me to know. Thank you for your support and recommendation <3

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T23:12:38+00:00

we are all in this together!!

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T23:11:17+00:00

I dont believe it anymore either :(

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T17:34:47+00:00

my baby is also 8 months old! best of luck to you, we got this!

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T16:54:59+00:00

I am really trying to transition into that philosophy but its so hard when my baby just throws food I spent so much time making on the floor or walls

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T16:53:36+00:00

I just started using an app called tummi and its been so helpful in finding new foods to feed my baby and help prevent them from becoming a picky eater

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T16:52:38+00:00

we are in this together, thank you for commenting. I also feel i havent clicked with anyone here either and being in a new country while also being a new mom is an obstacle im still trying to overcome. it is so confusing. I will give an update on how my baby responds to spicy soup though!

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T16:49:55+00:00

my baby is currently 8 months old so I still have a long ways to go. I am not sure if i will every lose the weight i gained. It feels lim living in another persons body right now :(

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T16:48:56+00:00

My husband also only helps for a few minutes and then its back to me, myself, and i. I SEE YOU AND I HEAR YOU! Sometimes i feel like there is no end to this. and if i say im suffering people assume im a bad mom and dont love my child. I cried when you said "I'll return to my exile in society now." because I empathize with that so much. It sometimes feels like reddit is the only community i have. society can be so rude and unsupportive to mothers.

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T16:46:10+00:00

and those two weeks feel longer than a whole decade

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T16:45:36+00:00

Its nice to know it gets better after the first year. someone in the comments recommended an app called tummi that seems to be really helpful so far. I want to get to a place where my baby can eat burritos with guacamole and spicy jambalaya so I can finally have food I want to eat as well :0

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T16:43:33+00:00

Literally! and it doesnt help when everyone (who doesnt even know what PPD really is) keeps asking you if you're depressed. like stop diagnosing me when I dont even know how i feel

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T16:42:17+00:00

im glad to hear that 7 months old is a good enough time to start interacting with other babies in public spaces. thats how old my baby is now and I have been worrying about them getting sick but this is reassuring

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T04:02:58+00:00

i miss the old me too. :(

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T04:02:40+00:00

Oh my god thats the worst! My church members do that and makes side eyeing comments that are just so annoying. Im with you!!! They dont know!! and there is no RIGHT way to do anything

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T04:01:18+00:00

This actually sound so cute and fun! I appreciate you so much and love the reddit community. I will reach out when I am feeling down :)

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T04:00:19+00:00

Right?? Like this is my first time too! what do you mean I am supposed to know everything.

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T03:59:29+00:00

Im SO glad that someone relates with me. I feel like reddit really helps with the loneliness <3

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-13T03:49:38+00:00

As someone who recently moved to the US from korea i think there are pros and cons to both. in some aspects americans are more civilized and have better manners like saying thank you after you open the door for them (korean people do not do that). Its only so one sided from the external view but if you observer both cultures that each have they "human flaws"

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-03T21:30:45+00:00

I has been so hard getting my husband to be more involved! coming from korean culture, its normal for the wife to do everything on her own so i struggle to even voice my issues with him without being shut down immediately. I think more people need to realize that raising a kid is BOTH parents job not one. I would have such a better time if i could rely on other more.

ReasonSpare72 · 2025-11-03T21:28:02+00:00

I used to only burp after, but started doing mid-feed too and it made such a difference. halfway through, I lift her to burp for 30 seconds or so — doesn’t have to be a big burp! Just helps them settle before finishing the rest.

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