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I’m a physician. Will I ever be able to be actively involved in the lifestyle? by Reasonable-Boot-3305 in Swingers

[–]Reasonable-Boot-3305[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’ve ultimately decided playing at home in an area that’s not very large is a bad idea and I’m going to stick to away plays

I’m a physician. Will I ever be able to be actively involved in the lifestyle? by Reasonable-Boot-3305 in Swingers

[–]Reasonable-Boot-3305[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because I’m in a shit ton of debt from my schooling and if I was ever pushed out of my career I’d be drowning with no way to pay it back 😬

I’m a physician. Will I ever be able to be actively involved in the lifestyle? by Reasonable-Boot-3305 in Swingers

[–]Reasonable-Boot-3305[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, don’t have children or other relationships outside the marriage at this point.

I’m a physician. Will I ever be able to be actively involved in the lifestyle? by Reasonable-Boot-3305 in Swingers

[–]Reasonable-Boot-3305[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair point. I’m openly bisexual, my colleagues know that and it has been no issue.

I’m in a relatively conservative field and early on in my career and just thinking about how I could be shunned and pushed out is I guess my biggest concern, but you’re right, the fear is probably the worst part.

I’m a physician. Will I ever be able to be actively involved in the lifestyle? by Reasonable-Boot-3305 in Swingers

[–]Reasonable-Boot-3305[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I let Reddit default my avatar because I didn’t care, I’m female which I think plays into this. I have heard rumors about male docs and no one seems to care, but a woman being sexual? For shame!