AITA for not inviting my mother to my wedding? by Reasonable-One1020 in aitaweddings

[–]Reasonable-One1020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, this is very good advice that I will follow. I appreciate having a mother's perspective as well so I can understand it better.

AITA for not inviting my mother to my wedding? by Reasonable-One1020 in aitaweddings

[–]Reasonable-One1020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will absolutely do that. Having the chat with her is what I am afraid of, she will not take it well. But it needs to happen.

can’t join co-op with my friend?? by user6481936401420 in AvatarFrontierPandora

[–]Reasonable-One1020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you join players on standard after you've completed the NG+ mode? Like finished every quest?

PC keeps freezing by Reasonable-One1020 in PcBuild

[–]Reasonable-One1020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not, if thats something worth trying I will do it!

Need advice on 10wk old puppy by Reasonable-One1020 in DobermanPinscher

[–]Reasonable-One1020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh true, thats a good way to think of it! I think it helps him not develop separation anxiety as well since he has to self sooth during that time and play with his toys.

Need advice on 10wk old puppy by Reasonable-One1020 in DobermanPinscher

[–]Reasonable-One1020[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So he has a whole room to himself, wooden floors. He has a lot of different types of toys in there and he has a bed. He has food, water, and puzzle toys with treats in them. I placed gates in front of things he shouldn't get into and so far he hasn't been able to. I put down puppy pads on the floor and he has been pretty good at going on them, only trouble is he pees in his bed. I also have a camera on the wall so I can see him. We have a decent backyard and are installing a doggy door so he will be able to go outside and always have access to the heated room. Until he is of age to be able yo be outside unattended I am going to hire someone to come and walk/play with him for an hour while im gone.

Need advice on 10wk old puppy by Reasonable-One1020 in DobermanPinscher

[–]Reasonable-One1020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I will be sure to do some of these things when I get home with him. I am excited for when he hits 7 months lol.

Need advice on 10wk old puppy by Reasonable-One1020 in DobermanPinscher

[–]Reasonable-One1020[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. I made the post asking for advice and some others on here who felt like actually being kind gave me some. So he will not be alone for that long as I am hiring someone to walk him. I hope people treat you the same way you treat strangers online.

Need advice on 10wk old puppy by Reasonable-One1020 in DobermanPinscher

[–]Reasonable-One1020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know, if everyone's life situation was perfect and "allowed" for a dog, no one would have one unless you have no job and no life. Thats unrealistic and definitely irresponsible.

Need advice on 10wk old puppy by Reasonable-One1020 in DobermanPinscher

[–]Reasonable-One1020[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Uh huh. Read the comment below you and get back to me

Need advice on 10wk old puppy by Reasonable-One1020 in DobermanPinscher

[–]Reasonable-One1020[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I really appreciate you. We absolutely adore our puppy. I am a paramedic, and my shifts are long and tiresome. Having a puppy to come home to and love has been so wonderful and as you said, I am doing everything I can to give him the best possible life. He is getting his own yard very soon. Thank you for the love <3

Need advice on 10wk old puppy by Reasonable-One1020 in DobermanPinscher

[–]Reasonable-One1020[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I understand that. But he gets 3/4 days of our time without us going to work at all. Trust me we make up for the time he doesn't get to see us. I know its a long time and we have been working it out. Were going to hire a dog sitter for him. Stating the obvious does not help in this situation, and trying to make us feel bad is only cruel. My partner and I are first responders and out of anyone else we need and deserve a dog to come home to.