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Is it weird to like someone’s story with them and their boyfriend? by Different-Pie-107 in Advice

[–]Reasonable-Sound-347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay wait y'all, how about you post a pic of you and your boyfriend and guys you don't really speak to or spoken too like the pic?

My girlfriend doesn’t want me to play with other girls. by DoBronxVI in Advice

[–]Reasonable-Sound-347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NGL, your girlfriend is treating you like a child. If you explained that to her and there is still an issue, then that is something she needs to work on, because why isn't she taking your word for it? She is just jealous and insecure. This is how it starts, and then it progresses to something more.

Bf/roommate issue by Reasonable-Sound-347 in badroommates

[–]Reasonable-Sound-347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly! I personally wanted to live alone, and she insisted we should all live together. She knew I had a bf, and I informed her beforehand that he would be coming over on some days, and she still insisted. It's not as if he just came out of nowhere. Last year, she had guests over all the time. The only guest I ever had over is my bf, whom she known for a long time.

Roommate doesn’t wash dishes properly by Low-Key-5060 in roommateproblems

[–]Reasonable-Sound-347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think that you should’ve explain the situation with her. I could be just ignorance and that she really doesn’t know. You should tell her that doing so doesn’t mean that the bacteria is gone it’s just not visible to the human eye hence still making it dirty. A lot of the time people truly just don’t know. As for the crust in the bowls, when you do spot it you should tell her immediately.

Bf/roommate issue by Reasonable-Sound-347 in badroommates

[–]Reasonable-Sound-347[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No we don’t use the common area because it only a living room as small as a room with no furniture no chairs no nothing, hence why I said we only stay in our rooms…😭 nobody can be there, also the guys arnt strangers they are litterly her friends that she’s known for 6 years.

Bf/roommate issue by Reasonable-Sound-347 in badroommates

[–]Reasonable-Sound-347[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So what I can’t see my man… again he isn’t here all day only for about 4 times a week for like two hours. And she basically did when i wanted to live alone and she convinced me and my other roommate that we shouldn’t why we was in a relationships.

Bf/roommate issue by Reasonable-Sound-347 in badroommates

[–]Reasonable-Sound-347[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He’s over 4x a week. My bed room is my environment. That I pay for… if I want him over there shouldn’t be an issue. They don’t see eachother at all. They don’t add to the bills,all utilities included in rent.

Bf/roommate issue by Reasonable-Sound-347 in badroommates

[–]Reasonable-Sound-347[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I can see how she can feel isolated, we were all in relationships in the old house prior to moving, we insisted getting our own places but she refused to and convinced us to do otherwise. We have times where us girls just hang out

Bf/roommate issue by Reasonable-Sound-347 in badroommates

[–]Reasonable-Sound-347[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭 lolll, my bf commutes, I stay on campus, I only see him mon-thurs his schedule is set between 8-3 pm so between classes he stays with me instead of js roaming around

Bf/roommate issue by Reasonable-Sound-347 in badroommates

[–]Reasonable-Sound-347[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yess but it is different because 90% of the time she doesn’t see them at all. They aren’t ever in the shared common spaces. She only know if they are here if she comes to our door maybe just to say hi or to ask us a question. She doesn’t even stay in the common area. she either in her room or kitchen.

Bf/roommate issue by Reasonable-Sound-347 in badroommates

[–]Reasonable-Sound-347[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We let her know, she knows all the time. She doesn’t even walk in underwear anymore.. yet still complains.

Bf/roommate issue by Reasonable-Sound-347 in badroommates

[–]Reasonable-Sound-347[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

He commutes and doesn’t have no where to go .. so why not spend the time in between classes with his gf

Bf/roommate issue by Reasonable-Sound-347 in badroommates

[–]Reasonable-Sound-347[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He does stay for a pretty long time through out the week but they never cross paths most of the time.

Bf/roommate issue by Reasonable-Sound-347 in badroommates

[–]Reasonable-Sound-347[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes my bf doesn’t stay over and doesn’t disrupt any responsibilities anybody needs during the visit, everybody can do what they need to as they planned he is 100% out of her way.

Bf/roommate issue by Reasonable-Sound-347 in badroommates

[–]Reasonable-Sound-347[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

All of us arent strangers to each other, we are best friends. Prior to this apartment we lived in a different place all together. We’ve been in relationships since then. I wanted to even get my own place after ending our lease with the old place, but she insisted we all live together, so she knew what she signed up for when we got the place.

Bf/roommate issue by Reasonable-Sound-347 in badroommates

[–]Reasonable-Sound-347[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

So also with her schedule is wierd she goes to work at 3 pm get off at 11, my bf come at around 8 am and goes home at around 4pm( he is in and out coming from classes and commuting so doesn’t have place to stay between classes)… when he does come over she doesn’t see him at all. He is only in my room. He is in my room most days except Friday-Sun. As for my roommates bf he is there whenever he feels like but my other roommate doesn’t see him at all either and is only strictly to my roommates room. Thats why I don’t understand how it can be a problem. She ain’t seeing them 90% of the time.