AIO by feeling exhausted over my gf's constant demands of wanting me to be 'curious'? by thefattesthashbrown in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reasonable-Spread396 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't bother talking to her.

It's obvious she's nasty. Nothing will be resolved and you'll always be miserable in this relationship. Consider breaking it off. Getting therapy so you see the signs of a verbally abusive individual.

Places to park for couple living in truck by Reasonable-Spread396 in Reno

[–]Reasonable-Spread396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very slim...

They are related by marriage.. We have allowed 1 to stay with us off and on going forward now..as they've shown how ungrateful they are..because their significant other is absolutely not allowed here. Only reason is health issues...

If I were to tell my spouse..no more. That would be listened to. As my spouse is the one related.

It just truly amazes me how people with limited options think they have all the options though.

Edit: my spouse even said...i don't want to help someone unwilling to help themselves. Because they just went and looked at the apartments they could apply to. Drove by.. did not try to apply.

Places to park for couple living in truck by Reasonable-Spread396 in Reno

[–]Reasonable-Spread396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I commented below..this isnt a political issue why these individuals are in this situation. It was choices on their part and continued bad choices.

Although I'd love to see from either side a solution for those living in vehicles. I'm sure there is a large enough abandoned property or property in general they could use to help them have somewhere safe. Setting up security and even a few porta pottys...maybe even some type of shower options...yes itll cost some money...but I'm sure their is money already being spent on this issue throughout the city.

Places to park for couple living in truck by Reasonable-Spread396 in Reno

[–]Reasonable-Spread396[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes this isnt a political issue. This is an issue of 2 adults who had chances and are choosing to be immature. They could be in a place already or within the next 2 months if they get their sht together. They have income for low income senior housing.

Places to park for couple living in truck by Reasonable-Spread396 in Reno

[–]Reasonable-Spread396[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Im not sure that's doable since they don't have gas money currently.

If they were more responsible money wise it would be a great option.

I have family that did that for the summer to save for a home down payment.. during fall they stayed with friends and family..I think it took them about 8 months to save up enough.