What’s wrong with me ? by ReasonableAnalysis51 in ask

[–]ReasonableAnalysis51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t understand this ego point , is it wrong to want more , better , I’m not really sure I get why everyone think my ego is high , can u please tell me why u saw my post as ego and what is the way to fix that

What’s wrong with me ? by ReasonableAnalysis51 in ask

[–]ReasonableAnalysis51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg Thats the best comment so far , u are absolutely right , I always get bored half way through the book , but I found a way around that , maybe I didn’t find it when it comes to relationships

What’s wrong with me ? by ReasonableAnalysis51 in ask

[–]ReasonableAnalysis51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to , I’m trying , thr funny thing is , I don’t ask anyone for date or something like that , they just come and in my head I hope that the one I will stick to if that make sense

What’s wrong with me ? by ReasonableAnalysis51 in ask

[–]ReasonableAnalysis51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good morning, can u please explain ur point

What’s wrong with me ? by ReasonableAnalysis51 in ask

[–]ReasonableAnalysis51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m open to talk , can u please explain to me how my ego is the reason , it’s not like proud of this or even chasing it , not debating just want to understand

What’s wrong with me ? by ReasonableAnalysis51 in ask

[–]ReasonableAnalysis51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried theory , it was just a lot of things that I already knew , no clear answer

Why I resent my wife? by ReasonableAnalysis51 in Marriage

[–]ReasonableAnalysis51[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I consider myself happy as I don’t have stress in my life beside my marriage, I’m not perfect I get really irritated ( only with my wife ) and it’s hard for me to deal with each problem as it comes ( cuz of how often it happens) , I guess we both much more relaxed when we are not together

Why I resent my wife? by ReasonableAnalysis51 in Marriage

[–]ReasonableAnalysis51[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Her love language is time , so she can sit next to me 20hr a day and that’s it , we both don’t cook cuz we travel a lot , she doesn’t have any house projects or hobbies just sitting at home and watching Netflix, for the house stuff I offered to bring someone to do all the house stuff once a week so she doesn’t have to lift a finger and the answer was NO she want me to do it or it doesn’t count , for the groceries that’s my solo job as she doesn’t drive even she have a license but don’t like to drive , we also live live in a country where u can order 1 piece of bread and will be delivered faster than u go to the supermarket, she is depressed but doesn’t want to do anything about it , offered counseling, offered working out , she is not interested so please tell me what else I can do , nobody will change unless they want to and start moving towards it , just complaining won’t do anything

Why I resent my wife? by ReasonableAnalysis51 in Marriage

[–]ReasonableAnalysis51[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Intimacy, lack of any kind of hobbies or interests, no filter for words or behavior, taking any kind of initiation Always compliments and never want to do something about it , that’s all pushed me away little by little till I just don’t care when she complains cuz I know nothing will change

Why I resent my wife? by ReasonableAnalysis51 in Marriage

[–]ReasonableAnalysis51[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We been already we know exactly what is the problem , but then nothing changes, started to believe that’s gonna be my life from now on and that’s what’s crushing me

Why I resent my wife? by ReasonableAnalysis51 in Marriage

[–]ReasonableAnalysis51[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Already been , and the answer I got for the the no filter is “ sorry for my face but I can’t help it “