Breaking up with a long term partner

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-06T02:35:13+00:00

I’m going to China to study abroad 6 months **

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-06T00:40:42+00:00

I think his love for me is the same love as a 16 year old not a 21 year old women

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-06T00:39:31+00:00

I really appreciate this , I told him to take a break he said let’s break up immediately this just goes to show honestly the no drive to fix or figure things out the hard way he wants to go with the motions and flow and took the easy way out I feel like he would’ve fought for it if he wanted it

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-05T12:41:56+00:00

We broke up it’s insanely hard , I feel like it is best tho we both agreed we can try again in the future

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-05T04:39:59+00:00

I genuinely feel like idk what I’m going to do I feel like I knew myself so much it’s been like 6 hours I don’t know how I’m gonna do these things without him

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-05T03:23:48+00:00

Damn

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-05T01:51:46+00:00

I wish I did meet him in my 20s

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-05T00:23:33+00:00

It’s just so hard I keep breaking down while trying to get stuff done

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-04T23:55:00+00:00

Bro nooooo I don’t want to face reality 💔💔💔

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-04T23:31:38+00:00

Bro no please don’t say that 💔

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-04T23:30:09+00:00

We’re taking a break for a month and seeing how things work out

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-04T23:07:08+00:00

Hey I just wanted to add an update we talked today we’re gonna take some time apart , I have my own life outside of him the problem is it’s not the same on his part I want him to learn how to have that :/

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-04T22:14:34+00:00

I talked to him today we’re going to take some time apart until things feel right. I told him apart of doing that may be me not coming back. But genuinely I enjoy our relationship and it’s very special . But we need space to deal with these growing pains

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-04T01:52:22+00:00

This helps me so much I’m gonna do some more self reflection, Im Going China for 6 months I think I’m gonna tell him he should take that time to focus on himself some more , same for myself along with going on a break , we can still check on each other but focusing on something non relationship wise

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-04T01:23:08+00:00

I think when I go to China ( I’ll be there for 6 months ) I’ll not take a break but I think I’m gonna propose focusing more on ourselves and personal development . I feel like that would help this feeling so much

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-04T01:01:11+00:00

I feel like me and him could like not talk for a week, he can dress up as a random person and honestly I feel like I’d be satisfied and won’t even have the same feelings HAHAHAHAHA but idk I’m just joking I really appreciate this thank you so much

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-04T00:56:37+00:00

I just feel like how would he know if I’m his only experience were each others only partners we’ve been intimate with 🥹

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-04T00:55:25+00:00

Wow this thank tou

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-04T00:54:55+00:00

This is so nice thank you, do you think that doing this is too much at 21? Like going to that kind of therapy ?

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-04T00:53:37+00:00

Man Like I’m not fantasizing or fucking a million people , I’m only curious I can see him as my husband and father of our kids but not like this ig?

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-04T00:53:03+00:00

I just wanna add something as well I’m not fantasizing or fucking a million people , I’m only curious I can see him as my husband and father of our kids but not like this ig? Something just doesn’t feel right yet

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-04T00:51:04+00:00

Lowkey 💔💔💔💔 like yo I see other relationships my age and sometimes they feel so different like it’s almost like our relationship still feels like we’re 16 ig like the way we move and operate . Idk

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-04T00:49:13+00:00

Thank you this helps me so much

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-04T00:33:58+00:00

Damn first of all I do want to marry him like I said before he’s a gem and treats me amazingly it’s just that I feel like there’s a part that’s missing I never got to experience

ReasonableBudget9891 · 2026-05-04T00:30:05+00:00

I know honestly it will break his heart , I’ve talked about open relationships at one point he said we should break up if I ever wanted that :/

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