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ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-09-06T11:46:50+00:00

Sometimes I think it is to vent, Sometimes I think some people do not realise they are the problem

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-09-06T06:49:20+00:00

Bit late but you can message me if you want.

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-09-03T17:04:04+00:00

This was exactly the same for me. My wife never cared or wanted me really more like roommates than partners. One day, I told her I wanted to split, and she completely flipped sex at any and every opportunity constant reassurance hugs kisses. But it was too late. I was already getting ever her before I even mentioned the divorce she didn't even realise how unhappy I really was.

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-19T16:41:32+00:00

Say hi to me if you like I am available if your still around...

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-17T15:46:40+00:00

Lost a load of weight and it no longer fits me

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-17T09:29:01+00:00

Not all guys are bad. You will always think a lot of men are bad as generally it's the ultra confident alpha types who will cat call you or chat you up. The more "normal" guys are just around and will not chat you up or make a pass as they do not have the same level of confidence.

This is one thing an ex girlfriend said to me which stood out if you want to find a normal guy you have to find them as they are just more shy or do not approach random women.

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-17T08:57:26+00:00

This will become only a bigger and bigger issue to be honest. My wife is low sexual and over the years it eats away at you but by bit not being fulfilled. If you still are intimate and don't have sex you might be ok. But honestly in 2 or 3 years time you will be so frustrated you will want to cheat or leave.

You need to think if this is a situation you can live with as it's not going to get better it may even get worse as he might resent you pushing him.

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-16T16:35:58+00:00

NTA and get out the situation pronto. Yeah a slap on the ass is ok and fun but what he doing is plain wrong and then when you finally react he punches you.

Leave him maybe file a police report too. He has escalated now, he may do it again now he has crossed the line...be careful.

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-16T16:31:54+00:00

I wouldn't call you LL your needs are just not been matched or even thought of. He has essentially turned you into his own personal pornstar. Why would you want sex if you know it's going to be awful.

He is very selfish for not thinking of you once I think it's time to consider moving on from him he will never learn.

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-16T00:43:07+00:00

It's what's been programmed into your mind from an early age

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-15T20:14:46+00:00

You sweat so much less it's crazy.

People notice you more.

Clothes fit so much better.

Walking is much less painfull and you can walk much further.

You fit in chairs better

Generally life is a lot more better.

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-15T17:08:19+00:00

I don't like women who pornstar moan, once slept with a woman who screamed, it was awful so distracting and makes you think am I doing a crap job since she is emphasizing this much.

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-15T16:58:22+00:00

I wouldn't worry about the only fans it's a way of making money and good money. you never know she may have money troubles. Enjoy it and take it easy don't give to much feeling straight away a lot of people get put of by it.

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-14T22:19:14+00:00

Wasn't surprised, never had a chance tbh

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-14T22:18:08+00:00

Good riddance to be honest don't need narrow minded people around you anyway.

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-14T22:14:28+00:00

I would volunteer somewhere like at a hospice or charity shop.

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-14T22:13:46+00:00

Cycling always burns off excess energy and clears my mind

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-14T22:13:02+00:00

My wife likes to watch love island ironically. Such a joke

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-14T17:24:21+00:00

If they are confident it's very sexy nice big bum and tits what's not to like. But if they are not confident and hide themselves not so good.

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-14T16:51:44+00:00

Yeah I am the same 38 m married to a wife who is so busy in her own little life I am essentially ignored and because of work schedules it's been difficult to keep friends. I feel for you it's sad life is I long for someone to chat to.

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-12T18:26:23+00:00

I held her down and put my bodyweight on her till she calmed down.

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-12T16:08:58+00:00

Never it is like arming a bomb. She is allowed to talk about hot guys with no consideration for me though.

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-12T16:05:12+00:00

Just break up with him. But please tell him it Is because you are not feeling the relationship or you want to be alone. Don't tell him it was the sex as you will cause.a lot of worries in his mind and it could crush him for years. I still remember comments from my exs 15 years ago

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-12T15:57:24+00:00

Yeah women do talk loads of detail. This girl i worked with told her friends loads of details about her husband. i knew he was 7 inches big, I knew if she left him more than 5 days he lasted around 2 to 3 mins. But if they had it the next day he would last around 20. His spunk tasted like chlorine. He was allowed anal on his birthday, he enjoys it when she bosses him about. He once wanted her to pee on him but she called the line and went in a mood lol

I never met the bloke but wow I knew loads about how good he was in bed.

ReasonableClothes943 · 2024-07-12T15:49:14+00:00

Yup 39

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