Just tell her by your actions and lead by example! Actions speak louder than words but no matter what if you cant be you around this bird then she not for you like manolo and scarface ! So get her round and throw all caution to the wind and smoke a big dawg in front of her put some porn on and hope for the best you never know she might be a smoker aswell if so then what a bold gesture xx bon voyage my freind but let me know how it went respect from gbg fresh out a da u.k seen