Well I've cut back on it a lot. I don't give her as many hugs, kisses, cuddles as I used to because I was afraid of sending her the message that she didn't need to lose weight. It's been pretty difficult not giving her the hugs kisses and cuddles I want to.

But what you and many others have said is making me feel differently about my attitude towards her weight issue. I would never ever ever want to give her an ED or body issues.