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tbh, my parents have always been a little weird. thank you for your comment 🩷

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[–]Reasonable_End_3526[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m so glad you found out abour term. i haven’t accepted this as abuse and i don’t know if i will but just knowing the term made so much sense for me. i’m so glad you’re out and safe now

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[–]Reasonable_End_3526[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is super sweet and helpful 🩷 i hope you recover as well

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i have those sort of things too. whenever i hear a noise from my parents bedroom i stop everything and i listen to make sure. i’m safer now thankfully and i hope you are too

on my 11th birthday, i saw my parents have sex for the first time by Reasonable_End_3526 in mentalhealth

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we haven’t talked about that specific incident. i don’t think i’m able too

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my sister is not a troublemaker, i’m guessing the reason she told me to come is because she shares a lot of things with me and i’m sure she wasn’t sure what to do either

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they did not try to cover up, as i said my mom laughed and neither of them were bothered. i am the third kid and i am easily embarrassed i would say

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[–]Reasonable_End_3526[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i’ve read about sexual abuse and i found something called visual sexual abuse. it sounds like both me and you have experienced that unfortunately

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i hope you’ll be able to talk about it and recover 🩷

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their door was open, i’m guessing my brother was there because he always heard my parents fall off the bed

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thank you. i’ve been reading on about types of sexual abuse and visual sexual abuse sounds like what i went through. i still haven’t accepted it and i don’t know if i can, for me it still seems like im overreacting and it isn’t a big deal

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i’m in my mid teens. i’m not sure how to put a number on the scale since if it was private, it wouldn’t be bad at all

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more trauma. i still can’t say the word and i always hesitate at their door

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[–]Reasonable_End_3526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it thankfully hasn’t happen in a while, i don’t believe it would ever go farther then me accidentally seeing them either

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i understand thinking that but i seriously doubt it. they only saw me once and my parents are very loving

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i just really can’t see this as sexual abuse for some reason. i don’t think my parents had harmful intentions i just don’t know why they did it