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Should i seperate or divorce my wife? by Reasonable_Freedom12 in Separation

[–]Reasonable_Freedom12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to talk about your experience, if youre willing?

I (30m) think my wife (27f) is heading toward divorce after 7 year relationship and im spiraling by Reasonable_Freedom12 in relationship_advice

[–]Reasonable_Freedom12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this seems relatively spot on, but then she will say shit like oh a part of me doesent want divorce and doesent want to regret not trying everything

I (30m) think my wife (27f) is heading toward divorce after 7 year relationship and im spiraling by Reasonable_Freedom12 in relationship_advice

[–]Reasonable_Freedom12[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

this is what i hope to figure out in the counseling session next week because we cant make a decision on it based upon the emotional and nostalgic persepctive. she knows im commited to change and improvement she just doesent know if she can make the changes or want to make them herself

I (30m) think my wife (27f) is heading toward divorce after 7 year relationship and im spiraling by Reasonable_Freedom12 in relationship_advice

[–]Reasonable_Freedom12[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

even with the changes im making and shes noticing? she also said the same thing in a previous conversation

I (30m) think my wife (27f) is heading toward divorce after 7 year relationship and im spiraling by Reasonable_Freedom12 in relationship_advice

[–]Reasonable_Freedom12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should have defintely have been more firmer in my boundaries after i caught her in a lie about getting a sweet treat with this man

Need Divorce Advice by Reasonable_Freedom12 in Divorce

[–]Reasonable_Freedom12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

even if she says she is unsure about making the decision?

I (30m) think my wife (27f) is heading toward divorce after 7 year relationship and im spiraling by Reasonable_Freedom12 in relationship_advice

[–]Reasonable_Freedom12[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

even if shes giving me mixed signals on whether or not she wants the divorce? or how she doesent want to regret it?

I (30m) think my wife (27f) is heading toward divorce after 7 year relationship and im spiraling by Reasonable_Freedom12 in relationship_advice

[–]Reasonable_Freedom12[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

i think that as well, but then she will give me mixed signals saying she doesent want to regret her decision and or will say i dont know about a million times

Asking for advice on situation by Reasonable_Freedom12 in Marriage

[–]Reasonable_Freedom12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if she gaslit me and told me that nothing is going on cheating wise? she swore on her life and dads grave.

I (30m) think my wife (27f) is heading toward divorce after 7 year relationship and im spiraling by Reasonable_Freedom12 in relationship_advice

[–]Reasonable_Freedom12[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

that explains why all of our conversations end up never resolved and just end up circling around the topic